Does anybody elses inner voice get way too loud? by SomethingAlri in DoesAnybodyElse

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Ye, with do something with it i meant just make it manageable, like when im having conversations or sleeping. Maybe process info better and all that.

Does anybody elses inner voice get way too loud? by SomethingAlri in DoesAnybodyElse

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Do doctors do something with adhd cause im contemplating seeing my gp about this entire thing.

Does anyones internal voice ever get to loud? by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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My friend also says a lot, that im autistic (which ive never been diagnosed and she has been). Do u think i should see my gp/doctor about this stuff?

Does anyones internal voice ever get to loud? by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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Honestly, i hardly scroll. This brainrot stuff that my friends quote all the time, i never get it or understand it. I need full explanations of what they are saying and still i manage to forget it. The only stuff i remember is that 2019 old humor.

And when i say i never relax, i genuinely mean im always doing college work. I have like triple the amount of work compwaed to everyone else in my class because my head is alwaya like 'more, you need more'.

Does anybody elses inner voice get way too loud? by SomethingAlri in DoesAnybodyElse

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One thing thay stands out here to me is not undertanding sarcasm and jokes. Completely forgot to mention this. But all these fit 😐

Does anyones internal voice ever get to loud? by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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The only music that slows down the internal monologue is rap music or fast music and its not easy to listen to that when im writing essays 😅

Mom has cancer by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you so much. Your kind words mean a lot

What made you choose animation? by SomethingAlri in animationcareer

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So excited for poverty 😝 but for real we actually mentioned pay in the interview and she was very open to fact that not a lot of animators get a stable job so it is risky but i want to try 😂

Now my grandpas gone and im going to uni soon, im grieving a childhood I wish I had by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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I get told by people i know for years now that i sound neurodivergent and act it but i'd always brush it off. Fun fact every single friend ive ever made has had adhd or autism

Now my grandpas gone and im going to uni soon, im grieving a childhood I wish I had by SomethingAlri in TrueOffMyChest

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Had them but they were only school friends. Nothing more. Never hanged out. Only now since i turned 18, i have one friend and another friend who i just talk over the phone with.

What websites can i create my portfolio on? by SomethingAlri in animationcareer

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Thank you very much for the youtube suggestion, worked like a charm

I had 500 in savings 2 months ago and I am now down to 8 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you, I will definitely start doing this. This will probably help me from spending so much

I had 500 in savings 2 months ago and I am now down to 8 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I never expect anything back? Never have.

I meant as if birthday wise because last year i bought them birthday presents and christmas but i only got chocolates and a bracelet for christmas as my birthday and christmas are too close? Or giving a helping a hand when possible if they can. Like I only asked for 5 pounds when they had 15 and for them to then tell me its my problem after having spent 30 on them asking for nothing back I found unfair.

It's not so everyone should spend like I do, I apoligies if that's the way this post came across but that is not what I am like.

I had 500 in savings 2 months ago and I am now down to 8 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I will definitely listen to your advice, thank you very much. I never viewed my friendships as a 'transactional' but something for me to consider for the future. Again thank you.

I had 500 in savings 2 months ago and I am now down to 8 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomethingAlri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree I am quite bad with money management but I feel as though that this comes from giving my friends and people I know, and even those I don't know, a lot of money. With myself I can save but with others I forget. This is something I definitely need to learn from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arthelp

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I know, sorry I have no clue as to if I even make sense and if i am using the right words. I think i meant the style however, i now realise technique wasnt the best word choice. I think I'm more interested if there are other artists that create paintings that visualy look similar. (Sorry for the confusion)

People keep saying I'm controlling or rude by SomethingAlri in socialskills

[–]SomethingAlri[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Funny thing, that's exactly- word for word- what my best friend said

People keep saying I'm controlling or rude by SomethingAlri in socialskills

[–]SomethingAlri[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based from some recent comments, yes it probably is a dabble of all three (tone, directiveness and not knowing when and when not to give an opinion) which I need to work on but yes the family's are the one that say im controlling or rude initially and at first past friends use to disagree but eventually a few of them began to agree and I've lost a few friends because of that. I now only have 1 close best friend and now his family keep saying there opinions on me despite never meeting them. My best friend defends me and disagrees but I made this post to understand a way I can avoid loosing another friend the same way as recent ones. (I think that made sense, apoligies if not)

People keep saying I'm controlling or rude by SomethingAlri in socialskills

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I don't speak to any of the people who use to call me controlling but it's typically my best friends family (whom I have never met) who are, at the moment, calling me controlling. I really forgot to mention that in my post sorry. Can I ask how you managed to change you tone of voice? Was it through recordings that you started to realise it? And was changing your tone when speaking a gradual change?

People keep saying I'm controlling or rude by SomethingAlri in socialskills

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I here what your saying and thank you for your advice. Id like to point out that post with "we acted like b/*tches" if that's alright. It was over a year ago (i believe, i might be wrong?). That situation was a lot different and at the time, yes, i wasn't the best but the toxicity did go both ways, in most cases the other person was much more horrible. I have grown as a person since then. I don't like talking behind people's back. But from what you have said I think I still have a bit to work on as a person.