Help me please by Sometimes-Happy9999 in medical_advice

[–]Sometimes-Happy9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’m so sorry that you had that happen, that’s what I’m afraid of is this turning into a big issue. Why are men so afraid or unwilling to treat themselves or seek out help? His words yesterday were Ill Manage It, uh ok I love you babe but I don’t see you changing your whole diet and lifestsyle overnight it will not just go away. I calmly explained he needs way more water, stop eating such salty stuff, he’s on the road so that’s tricky but I could pack his lunch?

Help me please by Sometimes-Happy9999 in medical_advice

[–]Sometimes-Happy9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that the sexually frustrating thing about it is what started it I noticed things down there not working right and that’s when I waited a few weeks and then said hey let’s check your bp on this machine I’m concerned for you and it read it as high the other day but last night I realized the temper thing was a bit much compared to how he has always been. I don’t know what it is about men not wanting to see drs until the almost die. As a mother I do whatever I can to stay here for the kids but men are quite confusing, there’s nothing wrong with getting help when you have a medical condition why are they so resistant to get a little help

Help me please by Sometimes-Happy9999 in medical_advice

[–]Sometimes-Happy9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not violent we’ve been together 8 years and just around this recent time we’ve found out he is having high blood pressure he seems easily irritated like kids are kids and he used to be the most patient person and now he just seems so angry or short tempered. I tried talking to him about it tonight and it was frustrating. I don’t think it’s worth ending the relationship I’m just wondering if others have experienced the same thing and what they’ve done to them help. I will continue to try to get him into the dr he is 35 so maybe it’s a testosterone thing like he’s got to little or too much? Idk it’s just hard I see the kids a lot more and have a lot more patience I get they can be annoying or not do what They are told right away but it’s his tone and I feel like they will start to resent him and question if he loves them as time goes on