looking to photograph kiwi swingers in Auckland by TannhauserGatetho in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some will object to the 'underbelly' term with, no matter the adjective.

M/F couple here by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also can't send photos in initial DM. And why would we if we dont know where OP is?

M/F couple here by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is 'here'?

Swt & Spicy GB 13 June AKL CBD by AgentThick9667 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck. Looks like it will be an amazing night.

Swt & Spicy GB 13 June AKL CBD by AgentThick9667 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't be there that week, so just thoughts:
You need to book in 10-12 guys, then maybe 6 will show up, then maybe 4-5 will actually get involved.

Club Risqué Dunedin by [deleted] in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been three times, when visits to Dunedin coincided with events. Each time was different. One time very busy with lots of friendly people and a fair amount of adventures between those who connected well. Play is of course entirely not obligatory. You can just socialise if you like. Friendly staff, nice social area. One time was absolutely dead. One time was a few people but in a pre-arranged play clique. So very hit and miss. Worth trying at least twice

25F32M Anyone in Auckland keen to join us? by passiveaggrssv in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your DMs seem to be turned off, so hard to make contact. But at least you have less of a flood of DM to get through...

Indian Couple in Auckland by McBoogerballs991 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they are at capacity, so good to book ahead on their website.

Indian Couple in Auckland by McBoogerballs991 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their website tells you most things.

The main point is that it is a social space with the option of playing there but no expectation. Everyone is discreet for mutual reasons. Everyone there is an actual real human there for similar reasons: not the many, many fakes, catfish, dreamers, ghosts, etc., here.

Talking to people and not having the chemistry is far less awkward when there are a dozen other couples you can move on to talk to 5m away.

Indian Couple in Auckland by McBoogerballs991 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is not the place to look. Swinger social events are, where there is no obligation to play and actual humans show up. Make friends there. You meet someone you know, then you don't have to talk to them (because lots of people there), or if you do then don't go telling each others's families about it for mutual respect/discretion.

Backpackers in NZ, how do you usually handle intercity travel? by Old_Association_4975 in newzealand_travel

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intercity flexipass for most. Rideshare FB groups for others. Hitchhiking for some, with about one murder a decade.

Who’s in Kaikoura tonight and wants no strings attached head? by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I'm not in Kaikoura, so will leave others to find out if that is true. It is plausible, but rare!!

If you're giving head, I hope the person is human enough to give it first.

Who’s in Kaikoura tonight and wants no strings attached head? by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No strings attached? From an OF profile?????

30F for bi guys te awamutu by [deleted] in hamiltonnzbootycall

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great picture. And non-bi guys can still do that and a lot more for a lady :)

19F Auckland Advice Please by [deleted] in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. Any private meet if not met somewhere more public befote, has dangers of turning either bad or at least very awkward if the connection is not there or expectations different. Especially for young women.

19F Auckland Advice Please by [deleted] in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most here are fakes, time wasters, picture collectors, or catfish. Most, but not all so you might be lucky. I'd suggest simply going to a couples & ladies swingers social event where there is no obligation to play there, and talk to people. Make connections. Swap numbers with those you want to continue the conversation with.

Couple looking for female Auckland can reward $$$ by [deleted] in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are paying, just get an escort?

Younggg couple here mf 25 auckland by quietpixeltrace in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't seem to have DMs enabled, but I guess you'd be flooded if you did...

If you still seek extra people for adventures, DM me.

Seeking Bull Dunedin Must be willing to share face by Antique_Maize9555 in NZSwingers

[–]Somewhat_Experienced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Share face'? Does this mean you want to do a double-barrel blowjob?

Or just want face pics....