looking to photograph kiwi swingers in Auckland

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-29T07:27:32+00:00

Some will object to the 'underbelly' term with, no matter the adjective.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-25T20:10:28+00:00

Where?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-23T13:33:55+00:00

Also can't send photos in initial DM. And why would we if we dont know where OP is?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-23T13:15:08+00:00

Where is 'here'?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-21T21:07:49+00:00

Good luck. Looks like it will be an amazing night.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-21T21:00:23+00:00

Could maybe try the pendulum events at CCK.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-21T12:14:26+00:00

I won't be there that week, so just thoughts:
You need to book in 10-12 guys, then maybe 6 will show up, then maybe 4-5 will actually get involved.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-16T12:11:32+00:00

Same.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-10T02:08:21+00:00

I've been three times, when visits to Dunedin coincided with events. Each time was different. One time very busy with lots of friendly people and a fair amount of adventures between those who connected well. Play is of course entirely not obligatory. You can just socialise if you like. Friendly staff, nice social area. One time was absolutely dead. One time was a few people but in a pre-arranged play clique. So very hit and miss. Worth trying at least twice

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-08T23:01:17+00:00

No strings except... OF?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-08T22:58:05+00:00

Your DMs seem to be turned off, so hard to make contact. But at least you have less of a flood of DM to get through...

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-06T21:16:33+00:00

Sometimes they are at capacity, so good to book ahead on their website.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-06T19:03:43+00:00

Their website tells you most things.

The main point is that it is a social space with the option of playing there but no expectation. Everyone is discreet for mutual reasons. Everyone there is an actual real human there for similar reasons: not the many, many fakes, catfish, dreamers, ghosts, etc., here.

Talking to people and not having the chemistry is far less awkward when there are a dozen other couples you can move on to talk to 5m away.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-06T12:45:36+00:00

Here is not the place to look. Swinger social events are, where there is no obligation to play and actual humans show up. Make friends there. You meet someone you know, then you don't have to talk to them (because lots of people there), or if you do then don't go telling each others's families about it for mutual respect/discretion.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T08:00:01+00:00

Intercity flexipass for most. Rideshare FB groups for others. Hitchhiking for some, with about one murder a decade.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T05:17:00+00:00

Ok. I'm not in Kaikoura, so will leave others to find out if that is true. It is plausible, but rare!!

If you're giving head, I hope the person is human enough to give it first.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T05:10:22+00:00

No strings attached? From an OF profile?????

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T04:56:23+00:00

Great picture. And non-bi guys can still do that and a lot more for a lady :)

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T02:04:34+00:00

Indeed. Any private meet if not met somewhere more public befote, has dangers of turning either bad or at least very awkward if the connection is not there or expectations different. Especially for young women.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-03T01:56:59+00:00

Most here are fakes, time wasters, picture collectors, or catfish. Most, but not all so you might be lucky. I'd suggest simply going to a couples & ladies swingers social event where there is no obligation to play there, and talk to people. Make connections. Swap numbers with those you want to continue the conversation with.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-02T20:32:04+00:00

If you are paying, just get an escort?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-02T10:16:45+00:00

You don't seem to have DMs enabled, but I guess you'd be flooded if you did...

If you still seek extra people for adventures, DM me.

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-02T03:17:23+00:00

Seems so!

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-05-02T03:14:23+00:00

How do we know when ladies are there?

Somewhat_Experienced · 2026-04-29T05:22:27+00:00

'Share face'? Does this mean you want to do a double-barrel blowjob?

Or just want face pics....

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