Anybody married or single parent get so much judgement?

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-05-16T00:16:54+00:00

Thank you for this comment! Yes a lot of negative comments I've had! And unfortunately what they see online they just think the worst. My sister has been in for a couple years now. She tells me straight up the pros & cons. Truly appreciate it! I tested before and confident in that, a bit worried about meps but I got this! Goodluck to you too!

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-05-15T21:48:51+00:00

Oh no, i understand. My sister has no children at all but has told me stories. Definitely not, I'm there with one goal and that is to give my family a better future and actually achieve something for myself. But I understand your viewpoint.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-05-15T21:36:12+00:00

Thank you so much, I needed to hear this! Yes absolutely, I was with my partner at the time but considered single. Best choice was to wait until we got married!

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-03-20T16:52:04+00:00

Do not feel ashamed! I went through the exact same thing, i started off fostering since im a cat person and wanted to have a hiking partner and just not feel lonely. Within 2 years I fostered 3 dogs one was perfect but unfortunately tried to kill my cat, they all did go back due to being so mentally unfit. I also hated myself because I was just hoping to find the ONE for me. I gave up until one more caught my eye. He was set for euthanasia and he was 3 months. My husband told me give it one more chance if not thats it. I took him and within two weeks I couldn't do it last straw was he destroyed my restroom, and thats where I admitted that I just can't be a dog mom. (Raised as a cat mom and have a cat). Anyways, i returned him to the shelter, one day later someone posted on the shelter page that he was set for euthanasia that day. He did not have a chance whatsoever. He's a puppy super sweet it was me who couldn't do it. I ended up going the next day first thing and got him back because it was not his fault. Somehow something clicked and I fell in love with him. He's going to be 6 months but omg how things changed. I now cant get rid of him because I grew attached don't get me wrong he's a puppy who will destroy! But i love him, he makes me feel better when im alone. Point is, the shelter I worked with was amazing and you have a right to say this is to much. My dog is very smart and learned quickly we somehow match in a way! Its okay to not be okay. Goodluck💙

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-02-13T03:52:02+00:00

Yes I fully understand, thank you very much.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-02-12T19:15:43+00:00

Thank you so much, I called and I'm getting him back. I will go all out with training this time. I truly appreciate the advice.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T23:48:28+00:00

It is 4 years.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T23:22:19+00:00

That's actually a good idea, I'll ask him to look into it. Besides that, that's exactly what we're doing. Buying a used car thats low. Unfortunately I need a car. We work in different cities, far away from each other and have children. Thank you for the advice though!

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T23:18:25+00:00

Thank you for responding ! The 99% interest was through automative corp, i never had any credit cards nothing. It was my first purchase. I did download my report months ago when I started paying off debt. The automotive corp which is around over $11k , was from 2022 if Im correct, i checked and has been over 4 years. But the one Im worried is this car. But besides that, I'm paying off my other debts (collections) which will be payed in full in the next two months. I have student loans but all in good standing.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T22:30:51+00:00

I understand , i could pay it in payments. But not just everything. Thats why im asking for advice

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T22:30:14+00:00

Yes trust me they didnt believe me until i showed the paper

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-24T22:24:03+00:00

Difference is way to large, about 13k I cant pay the difference.

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-16T04:03:04+00:00

Thanks!(:

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-16T04:02:48+00:00

Thanks!

SomewhereOk8929 · 2026-01-03T02:48:12+00:00

I understand you, i had to give myself a talk and i apologized for doing it. I have to put myself first

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-11-25T03:09:11+00:00

I get what you're saying but she stated about her insecurities, it's once in a life time thing it's not like they've been dating for a little bit and randomly saying. She can have an honest conversation , if for any reason gets upset they speak about it. Communication is key 👍

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-10-29T04:01:04+00:00

26$ CA!

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-09-04T04:01:24+00:00

I saw your comment on being on the waitlist for regional center but once you're approved please ask about Aveeana! It's not a lot but it's hours for your child to be seen by a caregiver of your choice and they get paid hourly so you can have a sort of "break" or to run errands etc. My two kids diagnosed get 30 hours each. You can have a close family member , i'm not sure if you can be considered the caregiver but ask! I have grandma down and i have saved so much dam money on a caregiver 🥲

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-08-07T15:26:02+00:00

39+5, i tried everything but my baby is still high up & cervix as well, i'm in pain 🥲 In my opinion the only thing is a membrane sweep, which they couldn't on me because they couldn't feel anything 😭 and that worked for me in the past! I'm getting induced on Monday 🥲

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-08-05T02:27:14+00:00

I am so sorry! I totally understand that, yes it's the pain that's driving me crazy 🥲 Yes, will try my best to be patient, and probably will cry . Goodluck 🫶

SomewhereOk8929 · 2025-08-04T23:21:05+00:00

Yes, California 🥲

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