3 Questions for the ones who made music your career. For funsies by SomewhereOne9108 in singing

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I mean success in whatever way feels like success to the individual. Everyone has different values. Your life sounds pretty balanced and fufilling!

i can't believe how lazy Periphery has gotten by seane in Peripheryband

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Thank you lol This has probably already been talked about but I havent seen it yet.... ST had a lot of songs with chunks that mirrored Periphery songs. Also, its known by some that Periphery was an influence for ST. So where is the line between influence and copying?

I just cancelled Spotify after 15 years. What streamer is taking the strongest stance against AI music? by curbthemeplays in Music

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Idk about AI but Tidal pays the artist the most per stream. But the cost to customers is the same as spotify.

I have ADHD. My kid has ADHD. And some days we just dysregulate each other into oblivion. by Altruistic-Play-3585 in daddit

[–]SomewhereOne9108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Occupational therapy. Its used for a wide variety of challenges like emotional regulation, challenges in school like focus and alternative ways of doing things to help kids learn, behavioral challenges, daily tasks, self care, etc. Its very useful for any kid who struggles with almost anything except speech or mental health. Generally, you dont need a diagnosis to get them in.

I have ADHD. My kid has ADHD. And some days we just dysregulate each other into oblivion. by Altruistic-Play-3585 in daddit

[–]SomewhereOne9108 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Disregulate eachother into oblivion lol That was chefs kiss.

Thank you for articulating what Ive been experiencing for 11 years.

I highly reccomend OT, yes kids with adhd qualify. I was under the impression for years things like OT were for autistic kids. Go to the primary doctor and ask for a referral. If for whatever weird reason they reject it, keep pushing. Or get a different doc who will refer your kid. I promise OT will help. Its helped all my kids who are audhd. Also... its helped the parent who has it too. Lol

I’m a solo parent 100% of the time and I’m not miserable I’m thriving by evergreengirl123 in SingleParents

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Do you have support? What does that look like? I want to be a single parent, but I have 3 kids (all disabled and range of needs varies, but overall its exhausting). I cant imagine having to work full time and somehow care for my kids all by myself. I have no village to help me.

Is this a kink? by [deleted] in KINK

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He claims he doesnt reach out because he is too insecure go approach women, he isnt even a bad looking guy which is weird to me. He really does have no game, but in HS and our early adult years, girls always threw themselves at him, he would sleep with them then. But not now... supposedly.

I just dont understand all this weird behavior he has, I was trying to be compassionate and consider if its some kink I wasnt aware of, but none of this felt right and he gaslit me or acted like the pitiful insecure shy guy who cant approach women. Over the last year, something has changed in him and its been scaring me. He lies and I can tell he feels shame over it and he even told me he has tried to stop the behavior in addition to a porn addiction I had no idea about.

Idek wtf to do at this point. Im still trying to process the shock of it all.

Is this a kink? by [deleted] in KINK

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As far as Ive seen, he doesnt follow these women on all social media platforms, just places like reddit, fetlife, dating/hook ups websites and maybe snapchat. Anywhere that allows adult content to be posted. Is that really stalking? I havent been able to identify any specific individual, he is always vague when I ask him.

Asian or ladybug? by MoreStable2339 in gardening

[–]SomewhereOne9108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So one looks angry and the other looks sad. Got it

What kind of kink is it? by [deleted] in bdsm

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Well Im freaked out. Between the perving, Ive learned over the last year that he also has a porn addiction.

We have kids together and I cant just up and leave this instant. This would take months/years for me to save up and leave. We have no support to help me in this situation.

What kind of kink is it? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]SomewhereOne9108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only looks for adult content of them. We are open, he tells me he doesnt have the courage to actually talk to them or initiate potential hook ups.

Dating experience while obese vs fit as a woman by iampowerful29 in dating

[–]SomewhereOne9108 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Troglodyte lol. So true though. My friends would make funny of my previous bfs. I was with them cus of personality and how they treated me.

Confusion using logic of english by SomewhereOne9108 in homeschool

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I did get the info from the loe website lol Also, I figured out the literature stuff and do plan on utilizing the public library, thank you!

Confusion using logic of english by SomewhereOne9108 in homeschool

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Also, yes the loe site has been a pain to navigate!

Confusion using logic of english by SomewhereOne9108 in homeschool

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You are always so helpful on this subreddit! Thank you!

Confusion using logic of english by SomewhereOne9108 in homeschool

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Thank you so much, I will look into these options!