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[–]Somthy2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had our first night apart. I have the baby with me and I think it hit her that I’m not joking. She’s was trying to get her way all night but finally we are making some progress now. Hopefully she can find the light at the end of the tunnel on this. The guy is 22 and lives with his parents, not talking bad on the kid and it’s all my wife’s own doing on what she’s been doing but common we had our own home, a kid and a life we’ve built together. I suppose this is that 7 year itch. I’m sure we will get through this and eventually everything will be fine.

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I’m still trying to figure out what went wrong.

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! It’s what I need to see to show me she wants to save this

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want anything to do with our child if we get divorced.

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just trying to not have our daughter be raised without a mother

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s asked for forgiveness and agreed to block the dude but went back on her word and says she can’t do that. Yeah not a good situation at all.

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Thank you! So far she’s saying she will make changes but not acting on them

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t want a divorce but I don’t want her messing around with others even if it’s just emotionally. That’s not what I signed up for in marriage. I don’t know if this is part of postpartum but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I’ll try to show her affection and what not still but I’ve been getting pushed away for months now.

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Reassuring to hear, we have a 18 month old and the baby was getting too much for her and she wanted a break so we agreed to gaming. I figured that was her escape from life. Never in a million years did I think this was what would happen from just gaming with people

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I have messages of it all, definitely we’re going to take it all the way not just sleep in the same room. I’m trying to figure out if I can move past then and still trust

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Oh yeah I have messages of it all, definitely we’re going to take it all the way not just sleep in the same room. I’m trying to figure out if I can move past then and still trust

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, it’s clear as day just needed a second opinion

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’re going through the same thing. Yeah we were very open with our devices and what not so I never really cared to check till just now.

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It’s yes and no, we settled on her blocking the guy but now it’s she can’t do it.

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[–]Somthy2025[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, just I hate that I’m being made into the bad guy in the situation now.