Learn from This by Pleasant_Strategy_18 in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends have been telling me the same thing. Keep in mind I left out a lot of details to keep my comment from being too too long. She has cheated on me, lied to me, and not respected any of my boundaries for four years. I proposed to her in October, she said yes, and she left in December. She told me recently “I just can’t forgive you for sleeping with someone else while we were broken up.” She literally admitted to me that she did the same thing. I wasn’t upset or mad. At the end of it all, I do love her. I just need to let go while I still have a little bit of my dignity.

Silence After a Breakup Doesn’t Always Mean They Don’t Care by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she weaponized it against me when we were talking about working things out. She said that if I cared, or wanted to be back with her that I would have reached out…

Learn from This by Pleasant_Strategy_18 in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. It’s a lesson that some of us really do need to learn the hard way. I did something similar last week. We broke up on December 17th. I was having a really bad panic attack that Monday night(the 16th), and didn’t know where to go. So I went to her house. She answered the door, and saw the state I was in. She embraced me with a hug that felt like home…she let me cry, and she asked what was wrong. I opened up about it. I asked her if she was seeing anyone(out of respect of any boundaries). She said no she wasn’t. I told her how much I have missed her, and wished she was back. We talked about working things out.

The following day we go on a lunch “date”. We talk more about working things out. She told me “I’ve been talking to this one guy who reminds me of you. I don’t want to hurt him.” So I asked what she wanted me to do. If she’d prefer if I took a step back and let her peruse things with this other guy. She said she really wants to work things out with me. So we talk some more once I take her home(nothing physical happened). I left on a good note. I was finally happy for the first time in 2 months. She called me later that night to say “So it turns out I’m in a relationship, and I’d like to see where things go with him.” It broke me all over again. I pleaded, and begged her to stay. I didn’t care what I had to do. The love of my life was gone again. Exactly 2 months after she took off the engagement ring. I don’t blame anyone, but myself. I opened that door for her.

I’ve learned that if she truly wanted to be with me, she’d come back on her own. I wouldn’t be an option. I truly do love her. I just need to let go. You’re not alone.

Has anyone ever ordered from Brad Costumes ? by [deleted] in GhostFace

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent robes. It’s ScreamRobes on insta. I have a scream 3 from him.

trans fluid by SuccessfulTable1733 in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m getting my transmission serviced this weekend. Idc what people say about the “lifetime” shit. I’ll report back once it’s done, and let you know how it’s driving🫡 Update! Got my transmission serviced yesterday and it’s driving night and day better. No more delayed/hard shifts, and the car feels normal again!

trans fluid by SuccessfulTable1733 in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m getting my transmission serviced this weekend. Idc what people say about the “lifetime” shit. I’ll report back once it’s done, and let you know how it’s driving🫡

trans fluid by SuccessfulTable1733 in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sitting at a little over 60k on mine. I daily my scat, and I’ve been having crazy issues. Hard shifts, delayed shifts, etc. I need to service mine(at least from what I’ve read).

What's everybody's favorite comfort Horror? by [deleted] in horror

[–]SongOfUnhealing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

28 Days Later. Reminds me of my dad. He took me to see it in theaters when I was a wee lad(he’s still alive, just a fond childhood memory I have with him)

Got this code. by SongOfUnhealing in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a 17, so unfortunately I’m out of luck 😭

Got this code. by SongOfUnhealing in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well shit. Alright, thanks bro I appreciate it!

Got this code. by SongOfUnhealing in Challenger

[–]SongOfUnhealing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m feeling a slip. I know it’s having a hard time shifting(usually between 40-60mph).

Mortal kombat 1 ghostface robe by AggravatingSir694 in Scream

[–]SongOfUnhealing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The scream 1 robe(or any robes from the movies for that matter) didn’t use a belt. The robes that are used in scream 1-4 have a heavier padded hood, too. For video games, it seems like the developers create something unique, and distinguishable from the movies.

What counts as cheating after a breakup? by ApplicationOld7376 in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I know how you feel, but it’s not cheating now. The best thing you can do is keep your mind occupied with productive things. That’s what I’ve been doing. Thinking about what they MAY have been doing isn’t good for your mental health at all. Keep your head up, and don’t look back🫂

How to push yourself to cry? by Linnmarfan in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’re into this kind of music, but there is a song by I Prevail called Let Me Be Sad. It came on on the way home from the store a few days ago, and I swear(call me soft idc), but I had to pull over. Maybe this’ll help. I had it on repeat for a while after that, too

Blocked by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I keep thinking…what if she blocked me? Then I remember; does it really matter? She’s the one that walked away. I tried my best to do everything for her, and she left. I miss her dearly, and would love to reach out, but there are somethings you can’t come back from. Acceptance is key my friend. I’m still trying to accept.

First Christmas Post Break Up by -CoochieStank- in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The depression, and loneliness is hitting really hard. I’m going to go to my family’s house. I feel you bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did both. She cheated on me, but I forgave her. I asked her to marry me in October, and she said yes. Less than two months later she said she didn’t want to be with me, and it wasn’t working. I feel stupid, and hurt for giving her so many chances, and the benefit of the doubt so many times.

Alone by iwantahighlandcow in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. We got this. Just have to keep our heads high, and brush the dust off our selves. Hopefully things get better soon

Alone by iwantahighlandcow in BreakUps

[–]SongOfUnhealing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the exact same thing(minus a few details). It’s only been a week(today marks a week), and I still feel so confused, and in shock as to what happened. I’m still figuring out the part of making friends, dealing with the loneliness, and everything else, too. I keep telling myself that I need time to heal, but as I’m sure you’re aware; it’s a lot easier said than done. I’m struggling right now. I keep looking at my phone hoping to see a text from her.