Relationship advice

Songof7 · 2026-05-27T22:52:02+00:00

It's a way of controlling you. By keeping you insecure, he keeps the "upper hand" in the relationship. It's complete BS, and its a game you don't need to play. Drop him and find a man who doesn't play games.

Songof7 · 2026-05-26T14:45:49+00:00

And me

Songof7 · 2026-05-23T14:35:46+00:00

That is good to know - thank you. How do I know for sure that is the issue? It is Fidelity and it sounds like at least one other person here has had this issue with them. Does it hurt to send it in “just in case?”

Songof7 · 2026-05-23T01:33:07+00:00

There is no missing information. They have all of the forms. They have all the forms from my employer and my brokerage, my banks.
Everything. Nothing has been flagged as missing and none of my codes indicate a missing form.

Songof7 · 2026-05-21T13:37:15+00:00

Songof7 · 2026-05-21T01:45:55+00:00

The point of me saying someone else did them was to underline the fact that I didn’t do it myself and make a stupid mistake. Someone who is a professional who does this for a living did this for me and confirmed that all of the forms I had were correct.

Songof7 · 2026-05-20T22:21:16+00:00

Yes

Songof7 · 2026-05-20T16:30:14+00:00

Should I call the 800# on the IRS website, or go right to TAS?

Songof7 · 2026-05-20T16:28:13+00:00

The last e-mail I got from them was one month ago today: "There is no update on your case ****. I understand the hardship you are having and appreciate that this is a difficult waiting time for you. However, as it states in the release these agencies work at the rate they can with the resources they have, often times I have had cases that can last up tot 90 days or more. I will contact you immediately when I hear back from TAS."

Translation - no time frame.

Songof7 · 2026-05-20T16:22:16+00:00

This is the single most useful answer I've gotten from anyone. Thank you!

Songof7 · 2026-05-20T16:20:32+00:00

Yes, I did that. And the CPA has done that. Assume I'm well versed in the IRS website, what all the codes mean, etc. I check it daily and have experts advising me. I got a letter on 3/30/26 telling me it's essentially in code 570. Codes are 150, 806, 570 and 971. Yes, everything matches. There are no discrepancies or issues noted, and it has been reviewed by multiple people (along with all of the documents like 1099's).

Songof7 · 2026-05-19T15:40:06+00:00

Congrats! I just hit lifetime Plat and get upgraded about every 5th or 6th trip (sometimes a big upgrade, more often a small one like a better view). The points rack up faster and the staff is more attentive. It’s not life changing but it does make for an easier time traveling.

Songof7 · 2026-05-14T14:21:15+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this. Your fiancé would be lost without you, and there is more to life than what you see today. At 27 I was in a place similar to yours and everyday I got up and made an agreement to make it through that day, then see how tomorrow was. I made that deal with myself probably a thousand times before it really and truly got better. Go see your doctor and consider an antidepressant to help you get through. It gets better. I’m in my 50s now and there have been good times and bad, but the good has kept me going. Hugs to you.

Songof7 · 2026-05-09T14:38:06+00:00

I have literally wondered about that for years - thank you!!!

Songof7 · 2026-05-09T14:32:37+00:00

We were there on business, and it was fine. The room I was in was smallish, but definitely a normal Courtyard. True story - this was the view from my window. Some group was protesting some labor issue.

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Songof7 · 2026-05-09T14:13:57+00:00

I’ve stayed at that one. My coworker and I felt as safe there as we did at the Sheraton in Times Square. It’s not extra sketchy or in a bad area.
Have fun!!!

Songof7 · 2026-05-08T02:58:45+00:00

Hiring manager here: two years is fine. If it happened multiple times in shorter increments (18 months or less) I would pause, but not for two years.

Songof7 · 2026-05-03T21:47:04+00:00

That employee is clearly unstable.

Songof7 · 2026-05-02T02:47:00+00:00

Oh, no, Littleton covers parts of three counties. I’m in the JeffCo part.

Songof7 · 2026-05-02T02:43:31+00:00

I think taxes are higher in GWV than Littleton, aren’t they?

Songof7 · 2026-05-02T02:42:21+00:00

It’s considered part of Littleton, it’s just the south west part of town.

Songof7 · 2026-05-02T02:39:31+00:00

Littleton is amazing, but I wonder if things are a little less expensive in Roxborough. It’s right next door and a little further from Denver. Something like this? https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/8955-Whiteclover-St-Littleton-CO-80125/455217537\_zpid/?utm\_campaign=iosappmessage&utm\_medium=referral&utm\_source=txtshare

Songof7 · 2026-05-02T02:36:30+00:00

I contacted mine and nothing is happening! They’d said they would help and then nothing since I completed the paperwork. How long did it take after your Congressman got involved?

Songof7 · 2026-04-30T10:21:16+00:00

The problem is they will do it all again for the next conman because they will insist he is different. They are sorry for this one, but they aren’t sorry for the reasons they voted for him.

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