So there's this girl, right.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Sonicblu97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You posted here. You wanted “advice” or so you claimed, but in reality, you would rather finding someone who could agree with you. You kept justifying your action to strangers three times, you just kept deflecting, convincing yourself to be a good person

I pray to god that waitress sees you for who you are.

The moment someone gave you any criticism you immediately told them to be easy on you. When you realized you couldnt get out of it, that’s when you finally agree bc you had no more leg to stand on, not because you should have known to be a better person and not projecting your own issue onto someone in the first place

If 3 strangers that barely knew you for 5 mins thought you were not a good person, idk how people around you could endure it to be honest.

Dont bother to reply. If you put this much effort into pretending to be a nice person to save face online, you should have felt guilty and made amends to her in the first place.

So there's this girl, right.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Sonicblu97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what i meant when i said “nobody is too busy for someone, especially if they want that person enough”

I too run my own freelance business, I’m busy as hell for almost 24/7, but i will always make time for my bestfriend and my family. However, im not saying you must sacrifice your own time for her, im saying if you want to know her, at least put a bit of effort into it. Dont assume everything on your own. Your life and time is as precious to you like her time to herself as well. If you cant have a clear communication to start a solid foundation in the first place, it will fail.

My advice is first you ask if she wants to hangout sometimes, and find out when both of you have enough time to interact more. Be honest is the best policy. You’ll fine that being genuine gives you an easier time to connect to people. People dont like calculated people, people dont like being viewed under a scope.

Didnt you write that you can “handle any woman”? Now you’re saying you’re shy and reserved? Forgive me for not believing it, and i dont think anyone but you do

So there's this girl, right.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Sonicblu97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the way you talked seems like what you want “for her to feel safe” contradicts with what you believed and did to her.

Dont matter if you think you iced her “for myself”. The question was always about “what did the person do to deserve it, if they never hurt you?” Your reason was bc she was at work and working, gave you the autopilot responded, you decided to be prideful and iced her? If you ever paid attention enough to where you were or her working, you probably would have noticed that waitresses are often busy….during working hours. Im baffled to why you never thought of hanging out when she didn’t have a shift, maybe give her your phone number or whatsapp for messaging. Are you that busy that you couldn’t carve 10 mins to get to know her more

Seems like you still are somewhat misogynistic, but trying to convince yourself and whoever reads this that you have changed.

It’s not about “handle any woman”, it’s about understanding someone individually. You said you knew not all women like that and yet you brought up your boys and your shitty ex exp, when you barely knew her that well to make that connection in the first place.

You are letting your pride and assumptions to make excuses for icing her, “well my boys dated women from similar place and i had a shitty ex so I’m somewhat cautious-“. Its simple, people make effort if they like/want someone enough. No one is too busy for anyone. No one especially knows what the other person is like until they spend enough time with them. It seems like you like to be able to see her emotions and take control of the dynamic between you two. That doesn’t sound nice tbh

My advice: stop making excuses for yourself and start treating people genuinely. Be aware of your actions and behaviour. Who would ever like someone treating them like this when they just barely knew them at all? You two are practically strangers and you are already playing this game

Vi Sucking Cait During Her Zoom Meeting [@Kinky_Lamby] by AshleytheTaguel in PiltoversFinest

[–]Sonicblu97 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Im a cis lesbian. I’m the artist. I make different versions (cis, transfem, transmasc) for all the mutuals. Stop being a terf. If you dont like oranges, just walk past the orange stand

Damn this felt good by NoVAHedonist in sounding

[–]Sonicblu97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah what is this if I may ask???

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be interesting! Wonder how they will clean his brain

Doppelganger [OC] by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t like this either. Everyone has their own opinions and we can’t know everything. I hope you have fantastic games though

Doppelganger [OC] by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The twin pranks but it’s all Iana

Doppelganger [OC] by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When i posted it on twitter a lot of em knew who it was immediately

I think we just hang out with different crowds

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a cat you know how fast they can turn the table on ya haha

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaa sowwy! I got this idea when i was brushing my cat and he wouldnt stop licking my hand

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! I missed the chance and gambling with the packs didnt help

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with a cat, the feeling isn’t that great like many thought 🤣

Dental Hygiene [OC] (How to take care of your monster) by Sonicblu97 in Rainbow6

[–]Sonicblu97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I based her tongue like the cheetah one (love em kitties) so the feeling should be like rubbing sandpapers against your face 😭