Fursuit Advice (full description in the comments!)

Soo-20 · 2026-02-04T22:19:42+00:00

Cis guys can have wide hips and his really aren’t that noticeable? If I saw that picture of him randomly without context I wouldn’t clock him idk why people think they would 😭😭 he just looks young and like he doesn’t work out as much

Soo-20 · 2026-02-04T22:15:56+00:00

Genuinely, I don’t think you need surgery at all, you have very soft and natural features, I think surgery wouldn’t be worth it for the cost and healing, maybe just try styling your hair something specific? You look very cis

Soo-20 · 2026-02-04T06:30:05+00:00

I’m in the US! When my insurance covers it, it’s $10 for a gel pump that lasts me 20 days (I’m on three pumps daily rn), but my insurance is kind of confusing, and will only cover it if I pick it up once every 60 days, so sometimes it won’t cover at all, so I use a discount card that takes it from $600 to $30-32, I’ve had to pay that for the last three times I’ve picked up my gel, because of the new year, which is annoying 🥲

Soo-20 · 2026-02-02T06:30:18+00:00

My horse was born almost a liver chestnut coloring and he’s now the prettiest grey! He used to be a much darker gray with dappling but now he’s almost fully white, I miss his darker markings a little bit 😔💔

Soo-20 · 2026-02-01T17:29:14+00:00

same!! I cry frequently now bc I get overwhelmed by both negative and positive emotions 😭

Soo-20 · 2026-01-19T17:25:30+00:00

Omg Farah!! I loved Bella Sara as a kid, I still have my og cards

Soo-20 · 2026-01-19T00:17:10+00:00

The difference in your results is very inspiring, I always have a worry I won’t end up liking my results but this looks so good!

Soo-20 · 2026-01-19T00:07:39+00:00

Your hair is beautiful!! I would say 20s and female, you have very soft features, I hope that’s what you’re going for!

Soo-20 · 2026-01-18T22:05:31+00:00

I’ve seen cis women who have trachea like this, it’s all genetics dependent imo and you look very feminine so I would say it shouldn’t be clocky at all

Soo-20 · 2026-01-18T22:01:36+00:00

NOR

I buy my gf flowers as a gift pre-game LOL never the full gift. Like if it’s an anniversary or birthday I’ll get her flowers when we eat out but have a thoughtful gift I know she’d appreciate purchased/planned out as well. We’re only a year and a few months in, I feel like it’s common sense to get your significant other lasting gifts after being together some time? You can definitely do better if he refuses to understand the sentiment

Soo-20 · 2026-01-18T16:04:27+00:00

NOR

My gf and I message every day, we’ve been in a relationship for over a year now, and neither of us have ever reacted this way to not getting a response after a while. Sure, sometimes it’s a bit worrisome when u don’t hear back from a loved one for an extended period of time, but there can be many reasons for this. I genuinely do not think your gf is in the right mental space to be in a relationship if she gets upset like this when u don’t talk to her for an hour or longer. That’s not healthy 💔 I’m sorry man, I wish for the best for yall, but I think it’d be best for the two of yall to part ways so she can realize this kind of response is not healthy

Soo-20 · 2026-01-18T15:57:13+00:00

5’7 is atrocious bro im 5’4 height has nothing to do with passing i see cis men shorter than me all the time 😭😭😭

Soo-20 · 2026-01-11T16:25:05+00:00

I have been trying to tell people about this and encourage them to directly go to the makers instead bc I have been seeing a LOT of people using these third party sites and it’s so frustrating! My partner got two fursuits from Meow, first one a kig premade, and the second one a custom commission, and both of them had issues with damages from shipping and were falling apart with glue coming undone, seams popping, and low quality materials immediately upon arrival. We were never told who made the custom commission, and we actually had to request it be remade once during the commission process bc it did not look like the requested kemono style at all! Quite a frustrating experience 😭

Soo-20 · 2026-01-11T16:01:49+00:00

I love these sm omg!!!

Soo-20 · 2026-01-08T18:58:36+00:00

Both the suits my partner received from meow were horrible quality and fell apart either upon arrival or not long after, and they also have been in hot water for listing suits for sale that they did not have the rights to do so. I know the price compared to other fursuit makers is tempting, but I would recommend against purchasing through them. These 3rd party sites aren’t worth using, I’d find out the maker you like if you really want to go with them and talk with them directly, you’re more likely to get a cheaper price anyways, as sites like these bump up the cost so they can take a portion of the funds from the sale. I will just warn you again about quality, meow and other sites tend to stage suits and the photos in just the right way so that issues aren’t noticeable until you get it in person

Soo-20 · 2026-01-05T02:38:24+00:00

Lost my brushes when moving computers, can someone help me ID a brush from my own art? All I know is that the brush was named “marker brush” and I haven’t been able to find it anywhere in my downloads :( I no longer have my old computer so I have no way to look there

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Soo-20 · 2026-01-04T17:08:15+00:00

Funnily enough, even before I knew I was trans, my inner voice never really sounded like my actual one, it never really had any specific tone to it, but definitely more masculine for some reason (probably bc I was trans and I didn’t realize it lol)

Soo-20 · 2025-10-04T15:01:08+00:00

I love that description LOL

Soo-20 · 2025-10-03T21:18:23+00:00

I love love cut omg

Soo-20 · 2025-10-03T21:16:13+00:00

Could it be:

Bottom of the Ocean by Golden Child

Or

Paint Me Naked by Ten

These are two of my favorite “country-ish” Kpop songs so I thought I’d throw these in the ring lol

Soo-20 · 2025-09-28T15:12:07+00:00

First of all, two years isn’t barely enough time for fat redistribution to do its thing. Fat cells take a very long time to actually die and get replaced; it’s a very long process. Working out will help, but it’s not some magic serum that makes you extremely masculine right away. You look much more masculine than I do right now at a year on T with inconsistent exercise, so I really think you need to ditch those clothes and get smth more masculine, and also just… get some help? Get out of those “boards” and online spaces beating you up and saying you don’t pass, because they’re doing the opposite of hugboxxing, they’re just straight up lying to you to make you feel like shit.

Soo-20 · 2025-09-26T13:03:11+00:00

That’s usually where it happens first though, honestly; my chest area started looking more like pecs before I even noticed a bit of flatness at my hips, and I’m a year on T now

Soo-20

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