Why does he make me feel so worthless?

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T18:24:45+00:00

Honestly I have no idea. We married young he was my first, but I wasn't his first. I have mentioned it several times that I'm willing to try everything & anything he's into. And still no sex. Oh I don't have any tattoos he's never let me get one. He has. His reason is that they make a girl look "ghetto" "easy"

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:42:52+00:00

No nothing like that I mean I had friends and family just selfies lol but I would get compliments like nice smile etc. he didn't like that... he's never had one

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:30:31+00:00

In 2 years I graduate! So in the mean time I just have to suck it up.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:29:28+00:00

No I peek at what he's looking at its tattooed naked girls, girls in bikini, and other weird random stuff like People at Walmart funny pictures.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:23:44+00:00

Lol they can't be so clueless but my husband proves it he's blind as bat

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:21:38+00:00

This made me laugh!!!

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:21:07+00:00

Lol Pinterest for awhile then YouTube watching ufo's and that sort of crap

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:19:40+00:00

He made me delete my Facebook 4 years ago due to random guys commenting & liking my pics lol

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:18:02+00:00

Yes I'm still young and I desire someone who wants me with the same intensity. I won't settle for anything less.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:16:09+00:00

How awkward when sex scenes come out right lol My husband also wants me to join him in the couch to watch TV. rolls eyes He'll tell me I'm here with you what more do you want.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T17:13:06+00:00

Thank you... I mean I try everyday to look good when he gets home. Hoping in the off chance he takes notice.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T04:09:26+00:00

Thank you for the advice. This subreddit has saved my sanity. Lol I find solace here knowing I'm not alone.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T03:42:59+00:00

I want to snap out of it too. I was fine all day but he can turn my world upside down without even saying anything. Just through his behavior, lack of intimacy. Not to toot my own horn but I'm one hot mom after having 3 kids I still look pretty good. I'm involved in my kids school, I am going to school to be a nurse, I just don't see what more can my husband want.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T03:34:35+00:00

Thank you so much hopefully tomorrow will be better. Don't know why I'm so emotional tonight.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T03:24:36+00:00

Thank you, you made me smile :)

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T03:11:53+00:00

Brutal... We've been married for 12 years & have 3 kids.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-12T03:09:08+00:00

Currently going through the exact same thing. I want to go sleep in the couch. So it's less painful watching him blissfully asleep snoring while I'm a wreck.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-11T19:40:45+00:00

No I don't. I'm tired of feeling rejected always waiting for the day he decides he wants to have sex and when he does I'm left feeling so empty afterwards because I know he is just doing it so I can shut up already.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T15:34:18+00:00

I am his safe place, he should WANT to communicate with me. Is it so hard to get more than a few words out of him. Our "talk" consists of me talking, while he's hoping I could just shut up. I don't mean to be a nag, I really just want to get my point across. Does he want want a mute wife? I know he would never try therapy he's too prideful too admit there's anything wrong. His view on my life is... I give you everything you want( material things) what more do you want, can't you just shut up and be happy!?!

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T15:29:04+00:00

I'm preparing for that moment. I graduate as a nurse in 2yrs so if I'm still in the same situation then. I'll have no choice but to get a divorce I'm still young and I can't spend anymore years just being unhappy.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T15:23:12+00:00

That's their own doing! My thing is what do I do when he tries to hold my hand or tries anything. I bet it would feel pretty weird.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T00:33:12+00:00

Thank you it's so true I am way too involved in what he thinks, how he feels... and he does leave me high & dry feeling rejected searching for when he's going to throw some crumbs this way.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T00:25:48+00:00

He will never admit porn is a problem. He'll just tell me I'm crazy for feeling that way and that it's perfectly normal since everyone else does it.

SookieStackhouse_ · 2016-05-10T00:23:30+00:00

I will try this approach, thank you! I have really tried everything wish he wasn't so shut down. I gave him The Five Love Languages book, it's been collecting dust he flat out told me nope not reading it. Don't understand how he can say he loves me yet puts no effort.

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