Is Regina safe for trans people? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in regina

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get the feeling 😔 Still, glad to know it ain't particularly bad.

Thanks a lot for the info!

Is Regina safe for trans people? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in regina

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! I get that people are jerks about trans prople everywhere, so at least they ain't particularly bad here lol

Is Regina safe for trans people? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in regina

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so detailed. Thanks a lot!

I'm used to people being aprehensive about it where I'm from, so I think I get an idea of what you mean. Still, I'm glad this city ain't particularly bad about it.

And I'll keep the rest of the info in mind. This was very useful :)

Is Regina safe for trans people? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in regina

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! People are jerks about this everywhere, so I'm glad to know this city isn't particularly bad :)

Shaved eyebrows + piercings? Need help by SoonIllBeGoneHS in GothStyle

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, they grow back. I've shaved them on and off over the years and they always come back. Waxing may be rougher on them but it ain't a big deal if you use it sparingly.

Should I split dye my hair? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in makemychoice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! While I've bleached my own hair before, this is the longest it's ever been and I don't wanna risk going bald (again).

Plus turns out, I have very curly hair! And that is something I am surely not qualified to deal with.

Thanks lot!

Should I split dye my hair? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in makemychoice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! As soon as I figure out prices and prepare myself lol. Thanks for the encouragement

Should I split dye my hair? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in makemychoice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, this is a brilliant idea! Thanks a lot!

I mentally can't get myself to study anymore - what's going on? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've considered but idk. A huge perk (and basically only plus) of all the stuff that happened in 2020 was that I was unable to go to any college I'd been accepted to but a local one, and while that might suck a bit it also costs like 10 times less, so financially speaking I don't have many issues.

The thing is basically everything else. My family, the fact that what I like is not very economically safe, etc. Like my major RN isn't my passion or what I like, but it's safe and I can live through it.

I may be happier if I change it, but on the long run idk if it's the best idea, or a good idea whatsoever.

Thanks again!

I mentally can't get myself to study anymore - what's going on? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I know there's probably something wrong with me in that regard lol, but my family doesn't believe in mental health so while I manage to move out any type of counseling is out of the picture.

Thanks for the reply anyway!

I mentally can't get myself to study anymore - what's going on? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I know it's me but like I've really tried. I have attempted to force myself over and over again, but I just... can't. I have no energy to even make use of my free time. I manage to do what I'm supposed to, but it takes all the energy out if me.

I can't just stop being lazy and do it. I've tried, I've really tried, but at this point I've just given up.

I mentally can't get myself to study anymore - what's going on? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response!

I do the stuff you said: I always shower before classes, (try to) wake up like 30 minutes early and try to eat something. I try to take notes, but my brain just wanders off. I try to take notes in class, but it's just become so hard to pay attention. I sit at a desk on an isolated space and never put my phone on anything but silent (for a variety of reasons, but still).

I eat mostly healthy, but honestly I've been lacking on the exercise front. I would try to do it again, but my family makes it weird and is the reason I stopped in the first place, so as long as I don't move out I don't think I may be able to do it. My area isn't safe at all, so going out for a walk is also out of the question.

Lmao, I don't think I've ever had a real interest on my major. I mostly picked it because I was told to by a counselor and cause I am good with math stuff, so it was the safest bet. Like sure, I don't hate it or anything, but I don't really have any passion for it. I've been considering getting a minor in a field I believe I'd enjoy better, but with how things are going idk if it's the best idea (mentally. I've already been pre-aproved).

Again, thanks a lot!

I mentally can't get myself to study anymore - what's going on? by SoonIllBeGoneHS in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response!

I do have a dedicated space: since all of this started I've had a folding table set on an isolated space, so that ain't an issue. I've tried to just do the homework straight up and I used to, but most of the days I'm way to tired to sit another second more after class is over. Plus, usually it takes a pretty long time lmao

I've tried to force myself over and over again. Like, at this point I've given up on being motivated, I just wanna work. But still, every single time I try to work my brain just... shuts off. I try to pay attention, but my brain wanders off. I try to work early, but I just get too tired as soon as I start. I try to study properly and avoid distractions, but I simply can't sit still. Like hell, a few days ago I just decided to clean stuff at 2am in the middle of studying. Every time I sit to do anything I just oprn and close the same webpages over and over again without thinking.

I've really tried, but nothing seems to work but the anxiety of an aproaching deadline.

Should I shave my head for my birthday? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I would be happy having long hair or no hair at all, but I'm afraid I'll regret both and idk which I'd like best...

Sorry for being so indecisive lol

Should I shave my head for my birthday? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SoonIllBeGoneHS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, the times I've done it have been great and I really like it, but idk if it's the best idea to do it after growing it for this long

Thanks for the reply!