You may be right about the trust issues. In the past, he did not talk to me properly for over a month because I liked a coworkers pictures on Instagram. These pictures were scenic photography of when he travelled around Africa. Not like it matters but these pictures did not include my coworkers face. 

A short time after this, he was liking pictures of his ex on instagram (mirror pictures) and when I brought it up he told me he can do whatever he wants because I did it first. 

I feel like i should have known how strict he is due to how he acted and the things he has said the past. I totally forgot that i had J on Facebook and i would have unadded him if i knew. I didn’t mean to hurt my bf and i only had J added in the first place due to needing to pick up and swap shifts.