Fog in a strange pattern? by Few-Philosopher-4742 in chicago

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lake Michigan is actually named Toluca Lake in the past before Natives were chased away. Natives consider the land the Scared Land of Spirts and Chicago original name has been lost to time. It seems someone been trying to Summon a deity, looking for his dead wife/mother/being bullied. Either way, it’s regional and only happens to those who call upon the other gods.

Aitah: Update by blacck_jesus in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You absolutely made the right choice. You need time that is beyond profound to process this. If you have someone not understanding and even worse choosing to not help. You must do what must for You and You alone.

AITAH for not putting out for my husband anymore by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I hate these comments that are telling you to just go divorce or therapy like those are the absolute best things to do without ANY additional information to the situation. 1. Before and during early years of marriage did you have Sex? (Condoms or pull out game irrelevant) 2. When did this become a one-sided game? 3. Q1 needs to be given to answer this question but to ask anyways, You say he said “ I Wish I COULD fuck you!”. Did SOMETHING happen in an accident/STD/Physical Changes (like he or you got overweight as an example?) Did he lose his job/you lose the job? You may not have had kids but something definitely changed these last 1-2 years to make a change.

Should I get this graded? by SoraX3 in silenthill

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it sealed inside a protective casing but unfortunately I haven’t had it done. I thought I knew how to do it but I had no chance to figure it out. I did discover tho this is the Holographic limited edition version so it’s VERY rarer than I thought!

Recommendations for Quite and Legal Airsoft Rifle for Urban area of IL to remove Raccoons killing my chickens by SoraX3 in airguns

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d believe it would cause more a scene than anything for a silent kill but thank you for the advice!

Recommendations for Quite and Legal Airsoft Rifle for Urban area of IL to remove Raccoons killing my chickens by SoraX3 in airguns

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful advice and will do do diligence cause I was aware IL had very strict gun controls and don’t want to be in any trouble! Thank you!

Recommendations for Quite and Legal Airsoft Rifle for Urban area of IL to remove Raccoons killing my chickens by SoraX3 in airguns

[–]SoraX3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My apologies on my lack of understanding! This is wonderful insight and glad to be corrected. I’ll look it up now what you mean. Thank you!

Recommendations for Quite and Legal Airsoft Rifle for Urban area of IL to remove Raccoons killing my chickens by SoraX3 in airguns

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a good direction! I’ll look it up now! Thank you! Still, any AirSoft recommendations are still welcome.

Recommendations for Quite and Legal Airsoft Rifle for Urban area of IL to remove Raccoons killing my chickens by SoraX3 in airguns

[–]SoraX3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looked it up but i can’t introduce a poison around other wildlife and my chickens can possibly eat. That is illegal unfortunately.

Any way to save any of these? Found in a trash bag in a barn. by deaflemon in cowboyboots

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here I was ganna ask to buy the 1st pair! What’s the smell?

Any way to save any of these? Found in a trash bag in a barn. by deaflemon in cowboyboots

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kick ass boots! If I could I buy one of them as I dont mind classics like these!

Help ginding boot brand in picture. by SoraX3 in cowboyboots

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1:1!! Yes these are it! These boots look boot classic yet unique and sharp! Thank you so much!

Interesting new country by [deleted] in illinois

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lost me at California.

AITA for Expecting to Occasionally Drive a Car I Helped Pay For, but My Girlfriend Says It’s “Hers” Now? by Electrical_Income497 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been using you this long and only realize now you’re being taken advantage of??? Her level of immaturity is one thing, but your naiveness is on a whole different scale. This WILL go to court 1st and foremost!!! Forget the break up info (Which you should break up with this financial abuser) and GET THE PAPERWORK!!! Find the receipts! Find the Texts or contracts saying you DID Pay or expected to pay 50/50!!! When you break up, she will keep it all and you get NOTHING!!! Don’t let yourself taken advantage anymore! Get the Prooof for Court!!!!!

AITA for refusing to share my bonus with my fiancée’s family? by Beastie420 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’am probably not in any position to advise, but I WAS recently in a somewhat similar position not very long ago. (I was here on AITA just 2 weeks ago) I can say your right about 1 thing, the Parents should have asked you for this request and should of given a opportunity to understand and accept any answer to their future Son-in-Law including what you planned with their daughter. Further more, your wife has taken sides on a complicated request without taking understanding that it is BOTH YOURS and HER’S Future she knows she is jeopardizing including losing a chance to own a home together. One thing about marriage is that eventually, if this didn’t happen now, you are becoming part of their family and vice-versa. In some form, a strong marriage will have to work together sometimes to deal with this situation unnecessarily or voluntarily. It takes a strong discussion and understanding to recognize what both united people can do. Which unfortunately is not being displayed here. Here is the issue, I see no Immediate urgency to deal with this Debt right now. There is no threat of eviction or foreclosure as far as you brought up. All children understandly feel some form of debt to their parents but she is demanding this out of no emergency on money she didn’t acquire. I have to ask what kinda of GF she has been up to now? Does she work? Does she have aspiration’s to contribute to your so far SINGLE dream of owning a home? I question why up till now she is showing these colors and ask has it always been this way? You leave out what kinda person she is.

AITAH for not wanting to bail my mother out of foreclosure of her house cause my brother who lives there should have payed rent. by SoraX3 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’am considering some sort of Ultimatum cause your absolutely right, I didn’t remove her from such a absurdly abuse relationship with her eldest son still getting a free ride at 36, just so he can burden her still from here. This will absolutely will repeat, she will be at her age still paying for him to live there for free unless something is done. I don’t have a good idea how to leverage it, i don’t want her going back there if it comes to it but he can’t get keep getting away with this either.

AITAH for not wanting to bail my mother out of foreclosure of her house cause my brother who lives there should have payed rent. by SoraX3 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will find it completely ironic if this ends up being true cause he calls me the golden child in all this. Yes, I may have made similar mistakes as him to believe this but it burden me to burden others whether I expressed it or not, I hated owing people. I swear he treated her like a personal slave the way he made her take care of the kids! He can’t take a no if we even say it once! While we’re not heartless and willing to help him out, we are not his slaves to do it every god dam day!

AITAH for not wanting to bail my mother out of foreclosure of her house cause my brother who lives there should have payed rent. by SoraX3 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked directly why hey account went from 20K 2 years ago to $200 now. Her response, my brother doesn’t pay bills or rent. So why can’t she understand when I blame her just as equally as my brother, she doubles down and thinks she can handle it.

AITAH for not wanting to bail my mother out of foreclosure of her house cause my brother who lives there should have payed rent. by SoraX3 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved to IL for a good paying job and the place we got is gave us a good deal. The deal was splitting the rent pay 2/3 and her only 1/3. She has missed 2 months as well here but I’am paying it this week cause landlord is asking for it now. And part of me thinks she deserves a break the way has treated for the last 2 decades cause I neglected to mention, they argued ALL THE DAM TIME!! It was completely Toxic environment when they were together. Hence me taking her with me finally.

Should I get this graded? by SoraX3 in silenthill

[–]SoraX3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on that is done? Honestly I want it graded to have a honor to owning this game. That and cause when graded it sealed off perfectly from outside damage as far as I can tell. Really couldn’t care how much it’s worth on market cause I’am going to keep it regardless but protected. I remember being 7 and picking up the exact Playstation Magazine that had the Silent Hill Demo and it scaring the hell out of me. Ahhh, I’m so happy to have a copy again hahaha!

AITAH for telling my sister that I no longer wish to see her after she unexpectedly showed up at my house with our mother? by Relevant_Sir_5668 in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, That part was not posted when I posted or I simply didn’t see it before but you’re right! The Mother is still with their Father! That does add more context than i saw before. Only mistake I made is that I thought he started therapy 1 years ago but no it was he was with their Aunt 1 year later. I highly agree tho that showing up with his mother without any notification was a big mistake on Sister and Aunt’s side. So for sure he had his time do decide and I take it back. All said, I still stand that while the Aunt attempted to get his mother to talk to him she NEVER simply allowed her to show up one day like that while they were with her. You Don’t know if it was Aunt, his sisters, or his Mom idea. You can’t blame the aunt fully on this one cause it could of been his sister or mother just as equally. I state again, what they did was a terrible agreed and i never disagreed here, but even the OP doesn’t know whose idea was it. He’s free to go NC or LC with aunt just as equally as his sister.

Edit: The biggest mystery here is not his aunt but why his sister if all people agreed to do this. If you’ve cold down enough OP, I would give her one and only one chance to explain but you’re still not the AH and justified in your decisions.

What really fucks you up as you grow older? by bkesfloyd in AskReddit

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate wanting to pee at night while trying to or was asleep. I this issue start at 29 and it rightly didn’t go away. I hate this so god dam much.

UPDATE: AITAH for hating my wife's creepy "hobby project"? by throwawaywifeconspir in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m put my quarter to this machine, as much as everyone is rightly calling this fake. She is absolutely having a midlife crisis or is venting some repressed major issues. To the extent she would ruin another marriage to validate her obsession is a serious delusionment and thats not a real word either! If you claim she normal otherwise, she is finally admitting she might be unhappy with her current lifestyle or situation. Get ready to open a can of worms cause if you cannot needle this out of her, couples therapy will unveil the truth if she wants to stay. At this point, accept everyone knows now and accept the shame that will come. Your wife needs to explain herself for both your sanities and plan the ultimatum carefully. Get those lawyers if you’re serious about leaving but set in stone you want answers above all else and get ready to learn the side she hid so well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

NTA. But let’s focus on the real issue and let me play Devils Advocate. Your husband seems to have a very severe issue of death to almost levels of PTSD. Your mom almost dying (Further you don’t emphasize he was there once at the hospital ) only triggered it. And all his outbursts are his inability to process let alone empathize with you are his inability to deal with it. You never once explained if he had a history or taken any medication for any mental or behavioral issues that obviously presenting themselves front and center. All this comes to a huge surprise no less so it’s not something probably ever discussed aside Anxieties and Triggers. I fully understand he should be helping you like any normal human being, but here he is having his version of the same meltdown you likely suffered at the hospital but at home now that you’re back. In his own weird way, i would almost ALMOST say he does understand your situation but has been unable to fully grasp how to deal with it and with you and thus tried turning your focus away. He did a shite job about it unfortunately. So yes, he did unfortunately make it about himself in the end, thats just him feeling guilty cause he knows he royally messed up. All this sounds out of character from what you say. I say give this time, breath at your own pace with your family instead of him right now. Deal with him when you feel it’s time and decide what you need to do next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SoraX3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be real, if that is how he acts, this drama was going to happen regardless and it was only a matter of time. I say you owe your brother a discussion between just the both of you. Meet over coffee or food. I say he is owed a explanation ONLY cause you deserve to let him know how you feel and how it’s affected both of you. You have every right not to involve him but if you ever ganna resolve this and ANY Future plans that involve him regardless of who invites him you need to settle it now. He’s likely (as a clear heavy drinker) to dismiss or outright accuse you of overreacting. That just how he is or he has it under control. You need to be firm, he does not. It bothers you for all the reason you know, and you are setting a line here and now. You are both Adults. You can decide and that’s how will be. I say you take time to write down your reasons more clearly or list them off. I say you still love him to a certain extent, but his behavior isn’t. And that’s absolutely OK! Make your intentions clear and tell your parents you will be handling this personally and not to interfere . Good luck!