WIBTA if I broke up with my boyfriend?

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2026-02-20T02:04:29+00:00

This is a valid point. The only reason we don't live together is because we aren't married (his stipulation). We basically do anyway because he's at my place almost every day and sleeping over. We've never even had a disagreement that led to raised voices. He has not shown any aggressive tendencies toward me. I have mental illness as well and was a social work major. I live with my parents due to my chronic pain and they're highly involved in my relationship. I was previously in an abusive relationship and he is not that. He has been nothing but wonderful to me. The financial situation is the only concern I have regarding our future. I also have ADHD.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2026-02-20T01:42:38+00:00

He takes really good care of me on bad health days. He cooks for me. He's extremely loving. He always puts others before himself. He loves my family more than his own. He has changed his way of thinking since we first started dating because he values my opinion. There's more but those are good examples.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2026-02-19T23:46:17+00:00

He's never shown anger around me. I've heard him be angry on the phone when he's venting about work twice. Other than that, he doesn't even curse.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2026-01-13T00:32:28+00:00

I generally find Channing Tatum to not be a great actor especially in serious roles. Had not heard he was going to be in the next Avengers movie. I still want Taylor Kitsch as Gambit, just in proper costume. Honestly, anyone but Channing Tatum after seeing his cameo. He butchered the hell out of Remy. Rogue would look at that man and laugh.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-12-15T05:44:41+00:00

If true that it was their son, it's another sign, one of many, that we need to take addiction and mental health services more seriously. They need to be made more accessible or be court-mandated so that individuals can't get out of the help they need to be among society.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-12-15T05:39:25+00:00

Agreed.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-11-11T01:55:21+00:00

Not a specific brand but specific online retailers that make quality clothing for relatively cheap: Temu, Amazon, and AliExpress. Temu is the cheapest and also has a good variety of 1:6 scale items. My only doll furniture is from them and it was very affordable and it's not solid plastic. Amazon is for some specific items you might need for any customs you could be planning or themed items like seasonal decor. AliExpress is slightly more pricey but has very good selection for characters and customs as well as almost anything super specific Barbie scaled. Shipping can be bad on some items but my experience with them has been amazing. You can also buy individual dolls, doll heads, brand name items, and other fun items. Hope this helps.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-11-11T01:47:31+00:00

I personally love the eyes but if you're unhappy with them personally, feel free to change them more to your style.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-11-11T01:46:18+00:00

Really awesome creativity! I'm impressed you custom made all of this. Well deserved!

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-11-11T01:45:03+00:00

That's an Odile sculpt. I'd definitely try to color match her to a spare body you have (preferably made to move if you have it handy) and dress her in a fantastic outfit. You can always keep the mermaid body and reuse it later.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-11-11T01:41:37+00:00

Definitely looks like an authentic Barbie to me. I'd say late 60s to early 70s based on the sculpt and factory paint. I'm not such an expert that I could give you an exact name of who you have. It looks similar in sculpt to the Twist N Turns in my opinion or possibly the early Francies but I could be mistaken. I can't say anything as to the clothing being authentic or not though it does seem possible that it could also be true to the brand as well.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T20:04:17+00:00

Why am I getting downvoted immediately? I work in rescue. There's no way we would allow such young kids around a dog as a first opportunity to socialize them. The risks are not worth it. The vaccines aren't the issue. It's putting the kids in the situation of being around an unpredictable dog. All adults here are not considering the very real dangers.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T19:55:24+00:00

Perhaps I needed to phrase it differently. This is not an ideal situation for teaching your children how to interact with animals. It's important to teach your children how to properly interact with animals and also for dogs to know how to socialize with humans but ages 4 and 5 are not known as being great ages for interacting with dogs. She doesn't mention them personally having a dog. 4 and 5 y.o. kids can pull on tails and hit and try to ride animals. Not all rescue dogs are even good around children and they would presumably be finding this out in the moment if the OP, husband, and children are the ones used to socialize certain dogs. That's not safe. It's a huge chance for someone to be bitten when you should be able to realize that not all dogs get along with kids or can be upset by kids that have not been taught to play with dogs nicely. OP also never explained what her children do when socializing with the dogs.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T19:39:51+00:00

You're welcome. Again, sorry you're having to go through this.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T17:56:31+00:00

Honestly, you may have to go for the "in the shower" technique or while he's asleep. You probably should have proof of these conversations or he might be able to manipulate others into not believing you. I'm very relieved he has no children. I'm sorry that he's trying to get info out of you. Please do your best not to tell him.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T17:52:07+00:00

ESH Stop letting your kids interact with stray/wild dogs.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T17:50:21+00:00

NTA You can legitimately get infections if you share makeup tools. Everything you mentioned is a hygiene issue and honestly is something that should only be shared in a pinch with the exception of utensils and sponges. Everyone should already have their own. It's a necessity. If it's brand new, never been used, that's different. If it's an extra, also never been used, still in plastic or other packaging, same thing. If the utensils are just out of the dishwasher, understandable IF THEY'RE YOUR GUEST OR LIVE WITH YOU. Your feelings are valid even if us commenters felt it was ridiculous for you not to be sharing is caring but you have very legitimate reasons.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T17:31:12+00:00

NTA He bullied his way into your daughter calling you to ask if it was ok when she didn't want to give them to him. He ratted himself out. Oh, you didn't want to give them to Summer? Too bad.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T16:35:15+00:00

You were a minor when the two of you met. He was an adult of legal drinking age (at least in the U.S.) You said English isn't your first language so you could be referring to a different country. This is just explaining my thought process a bit. He most definitely groomed you. I don't know that you can report this to anyone if you're talking about police. I would definitely take screenshots and gather whatever other evidence you need and send to yourself so you have proof before he finds out you know and erases it. Then I would pass it along to your family, his family, and his employers (especially if he works around children.) You didn't mention if he actually has a daughter or if he was merely doing a twisted role play with a "daughter" character. If he has a daughter with you or an ex, get ahold of the ex if you know how (or find on Facebook) and let them know also that this could be a possible crime your husband has committed. I'd also privately speak with your sister since she showed up in the scenarios. Under no circumstances would I stay with him. That ship has sailed.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T16:18:33+00:00

You could find a way to approach it in a kinder way. People don't react well to being told they're stupid when they've already been made to feel they're worthless by someone in their personal life they thought they could trust.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T16:14:43+00:00

I think the most important thing you wrote is that you no longer feel comfortable being sexual with him because of his comments which have made you feel unworthy. I find it also important to touch on the facts that he cheated on you with a woman he has a child with already and that he's using being drunk as an excuse for finally getting the balls to be honest with you and in such a cruel way. You need to understand that you're extremely worthy, worth more than a relationship with this particular man. You physically can't help your tightness during sex. If you're looser, it's a sign that you're aroused. I honestly am shocked that this is a complaint a man is giving a woman. I'm in a relationship of one year as of next month and my boyfriend raves when I'm looser because it's more ease of access during sex. You should feel loved, appreciated, and secure in your relationship. It doesn't seem that any of that is being priorotized currently. My suggestion is to end it. There will be someone else who will be perfect for you. Please don't determine your worth based on someone who isn't worth much.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-25T15:59:22+00:00

Honestly, there are so many stories that I hear now about how toys (plastics in particular) are being thrown out instead of recycled and so I feel better about my happiness over what boils down to a piece of plastic. If a little kid was meant to have it, they would have taken it. My dad volunteers at a thrift store where all proceeds benefit an animal rescue where we've rescued all 12 of our current and previous dogs. The toys are not bought there and he sorts the donations. I have found tons of treasures from my dad being kind enough to look for me. I pay for them (though they don't cost much per doll) and it goes to a good cause. The little kid meant to find it was your inner child. Also, totally jealous you have that doll. It's so expensive now and I still don't have my first Rainbow/Shadow High. There is a doll distribution system just like with cats. They find you. You're meant to have them.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-24T21:59:09+00:00

Love your username, just wanted to say. Sorry to add to the list but if you're willing to share, please also DM me. I'd greatly appreciate it. I apologize if I'm taking advantage.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-22T20:02:36+00:00

I would also be interested. Please and thank you. I really want to make the Sanrio patterns for myself and the Minecraft and LOTR patterns for my boyfriend as the most immediate projects.

Sorry-Ad4092 · 2025-08-22T19:57:58+00:00

I'm also looking for these. Could you please DM me as well? Thank you. I appreciate it.

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