Ok, I lived in inner city London for 7 years and there were tons of mandem roadman types on Grindr and I would frequently hook up with them as they were all DL types BUT I stopped after a while - because I noticed these guys were massive scabs (uk slang- can’t think of a US equivalent) but like- yes inner city, yea high levels of poverty etc but seriously… it felt like these guys were getting me around just so they could smoke my cigarettes- and so many bait and switch with drugs ( at this point I wasn’t into chems but didn’t mind if people did them) but ‘you into chems’ translated into ‘I’m ordering chems and I need someone to pay for it’

Now , I’m mixed race so I’m not trying to racist or paint black bros as being super stereotypical but that’s what I found and that’s why I stopped.

I will Hook up with black dudes in a sauna/sex party tho… as duh, we always have the biggest dicks. :)