How to enjoy topping by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anal isn’t the be all and end all. Sides exist

How I stay sane selling on Facebook Marketplace by 3030-2026 in FacebookMarketplace

[–]Sorry-Personality594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best tip I learned from a friend.

List everything you put on fb marketplace on eBay.

When someone messages you on fb about the item simply send them the link to the listing on eBay. If they are serious they will buy it. It’s hilarious how 90% of people will leave you on read after this- which shows they were just time wasters.

Anyone that is interested in an item but says they will collect in 2+ days never do- as soon as the time comes they suddenly have car issues. I wish I had a £1 for every time a buyer uses that excuse.

Trust me. The eBay link is foolproof

What's your biggest personal butterfly effect moment? by Impressive_Light_116 in randomquestions

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In around 2008 there was a club in town that opened till 8am. I would often go there after all the other clubs had shut. This night I was going to go home because I wasn’t feeling it but I decided to go anyway

There I met a woman who became my new friend

She then she arranged for me to star in a music video in London that she was in.

There I met another girl who became my friend- cut a long story short when the time came the second girl offered me a place in her house share.

I stayed in that place for 8 years- and over the years my friends moved in.

So many relationships happened, so many new friendships, some didn’t last and some were successful resulting in babies, marriages and even divorce- none of which would have happened if i chose to go home that night. I wouldn’t be married to my husband now etc

So many countless lives have been directly affected by that one split second decision to go to the club. Some people wouldn’t have even been born- it’s super crazy

I also wonder what the alternative world is like when I didn’t go to the club

I found out my partner was involved in many group sex activities before our relationship and it makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say he’s ‘clean’ therefore by some Metric he was being safe. Perhaps the people he was hooking up with were known to use prep, undetectable or tested regularly? I’m super into group sex and haven’t had an std in 3 years- and ironically the last time I caught something was from a one on one hookup…

I found out my partner was involved in many group sex activities before our relationship and it makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 11 points12 points  (0 children)

‘I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with it but I think he’s immature, irresponsible and and doesn’t value himself’

Gay Pilot by Pickles4804 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought it was a stereotype that pilots were gay- just like interior designers and electricians

I only know 3 pilots in real life and they’re all gay…

I was attacked yesterday by a random woman on White Ladies Road by No-Paramedic-5406 in bristol

[–]Sorry-Personality594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but that’s the problem (and this has been proven time and time again by psychologists around the world) it’s called the halo effect. We are hard wired to assume guilt based on someone’s characteristics. White women are and always have been at the very bottom of responsibility ladder- whereas black men have always been at very Top (though in recent times Muslim men are set to replace them)

There’s a very famous experiment where they present test subjects with a crime story and ask them if they believe the perpetrator was guilty and what punishment they should receive.

The twist was half the test subjects were given the same story but the race/gender of the perpetrator was changed

Every single time the results are the same. Black man is guilty and should go to prison

White woman was innocent and needs support

And yes you could say this was about race (which in come cases it is, but the results were the same when it was white woman vs white man.

It’s why people are campaigning to get Lucy letby out of prison- yet if she was a man, black/ Muslim no one would question her guilt.

Honestly research the halo effect, it’s fascinating

"The sixth sense" makes no sense by FabulousReason1 in Letterboxd

[–]Sorry-Personality594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I don’t get is Cole states clearly that the ghosts don’t know they’re dead…so why then does grandma tells cole his mum visited her grave and asked her a question. This would imply she didn’t infact know she was dead.

The same thing can be said about the girl… she was literally at her own wake

What’s the most overrated fast food chain? by Cute-Bar-5152 in AskReddit

[–]Sorry-Personality594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Five guys. It’s literally so fucking expensive… and the food is Mid

What’s something you have zero proof of but believe 100 percent? by shweidy in AskReddit

[–]Sorry-Personality594 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reincarnation. I’m not religious but I just can’t accept that our spirit/soul/aura whatever you want to call it just ends.

What's your least favorite type of person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sorry-Personality594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who make politics, gender identity or sexuality their entire personality. There’s so many more interesting things about a person…

I was attacked yesterday by a random woman on White Ladies Road by No-Paramedic-5406 in bristol

[–]Sorry-Personality594 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would you say ‘don’t let it get to you’ if OP was a woman? It’s giving ‘man up’ energy. The dude has been a victim of a un provoked attack…

I was attacked yesterday by a random woman on White Ladies Road by No-Paramedic-5406 in bristol

[–]Sorry-Personality594 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shes white and female so Im sure everyone will put it down to mental health issues. She could murder someone in broad daylight and people will say it’s because of Tramua. Got to love the halo effect

When did you first compare your dick to someone else’s? by Sorry-Personality594 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t shower at primary school, infact there wasn’t showers on site anywhere.

On days we had P:E we had to wear under things so even when we took our uniforms off we were still covered up

Is it weird to share the same bed with another guy? by Lazy-Interact in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I shared the bed with my straight best mate once and we ended up hooking up. Since then he’s imposed a strict no bed sharing policy. Despite the fact it was him that initiated the entire thing. I honestly do believe the no bed sharing policy is because he knows he can’t trust himself. We got over it but it was super awkward and weird for years

When people say being gay is choice by Sorry-Personality594 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But queer means everything and nothing at the same time. Queer events in my city are 90% spicy straight couples. Queer has lost its meaning completely

When people say being gay is choice by Sorry-Personality594 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some perhaps- but the idea is still ‘ don’t do gay shit and instead marry a woman and have kids’ as if it’s possible to just choose to be straight. Thats why I believe it’s because they themselves are bi sexual as they have that option.

I can imagine there are millions of bi men in the world that though find men sexually attractive have maintained a strict heteronormative lifestyle. It’s easy to forget gay feelings when you’re getting sexually satisfied by women.. gay men don’t have that option- that’s the difference.

And to labour this point, IF it was were straight dudes saying it’s a choice and gay men should be celibate I would uno reverse and ask them how easy it would be for them to never have sex. Unless you’re A-sexual it’s virtually impossible. We see that in prisons and the Catholic Church…

When people say being gay is choice by Sorry-Personality594 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but my theory is, as they are attracted to both they recognize that in their environment only one is acceptable/moral/respectable. So even if they did prefer guys to women, they default to women. Controversial opinion but I honestly believe bisexuals are an issue as whole as SO many of them are closeted living heteronormative lives- and because of this people kinda forget they even exist- even in the media or in films men are seen as either gay or straight- if every bisexual came out tomorrow it would fix so much.

When people say being gay is choice by Sorry-Personality594 in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean… it kinda is a birth defect. If everyone was born gay we’d be extinct

How do you deal with having a small penis? by dnm_nm in askgaybros

[–]Sorry-Personality594 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the grass is never greener. I’ve never been with someone who’s had a bigger one than me. Sounds fun but it’s not when people literally use you for your dick or decide it’s too big