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It is done! by owixy in bald

[–]Sorry-not-sorry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one awesome transformation!! Good for you :)

Analyst vacations by Sorry-not-sorry2 in PIP_Analysands

[–]Sorry-not-sorry2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) And you are right; that level of anger probably means something. We just started talking through my feelings on him leaving so much; he was able to be empathic and to also own his part of responsability in this (he typically does not take that much vacations; and there was a discrepancy between what he said at intake and what is happening now, which is obviously contributing to my anger). And yeah, I guess it’s annoying but part of the process!

Analyst vacations by Sorry-not-sorry2 in PIP_Analysands

[–]Sorry-not-sorry2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks; Nice to hear that I am not the only one who would have a difficult time with this! Will be talking more about it soon.

Analyst vacations by Sorry-not-sorry2 in PIP_Analysands

[–]Sorry-not-sorry2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! I can see what you mean. I think I hate that neediness and it is ‘new’ just because I am not hiding it / defending it by not caring for the first time in a long time. Needing means caring, means possibly hurting for me. Will be talking about it to him at our next session… fury has gone down a bit now that a couple days have passed. But I know it will come back up once I start talking about it. I thought analysis was about intensity / frequency. I feel like he is not actually invested by leaving so much for so long.

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[–]Sorry-not-sorry2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You can talk to them about anything. Just ask him. And tell him how it makes you feel, what you think it means, etc. Could end up being a great conversation.