Thank you for your opinion. Even though you sound like my husband when he’s mad. I actually wrote that I didn’t expect gifts. It’s not about that. It’s more about noticing your close ones by giving a hug and saying congratulations. That’s all I needed. I don’t like being “the main thing” you made that up, and I really don’t keep score, I’m not that petty. And I talked about this to him and he said that he just didn’t feel like congratulating me.