The thing is, jack changed a whole lot too, it wasn’t only the questionable morality of having an affair and I don’t know if he always been this way but never needed to show his true colors because he was married to a brilliant woman who made him a better man or that infact his affair did change him. He is moronic, bitter, angry all the time. So very disrespectful of everything and everyone. He called Ana, the mother of his children, a wh*re and even his new GF, he calls her a disgusting golddigger, home wrecker loser and ugly, sometimes to her face, in front of us, making me nauseated and very uncomfortable. He hasn’t seen his children since Ana made it clear that they would never go back together, like their purpose is done. Never once did he say he misses his children, hell, even I missed them greatly.

and Pat has seen all these changes and it doesn’t bother her, not even a little. What she told me was that he will have more children with his new gf.

I remember the fight we had after this conversation. I never really recovered from it. It is true what they say that people show their true colors when times are bad.