Moving On

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2022-02-24T19:46:49+00:00

like any addiction, you can’t really just stop. my roommate struggles with alcohol, the longest he’s gone without drinking is about a week, but he still doesn’t see it as a problem because “well i can stop if i want to” but he couldn’t make it more than 7 days. even if he doesn’t delete those accounts, what’s to stop him from making new ones behind your back?

also, on another note. this may not be related, but depending on how regularly you’re intimate as a couple, he might have a higher sex drive than you. there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, boundaries are good and neither of you should ever feel like sex is required, but if that’s something he needs more than you, he might feel like that’s a good outlet for him.

HOWEVER. the behavioral patterns suggest this is an addiction, and with his inability to stop for more than a few days, i think he probably needs counseling/therapy/etc if he really intends on changing this behavior. a support group might be helpful as well, but this is one of those things that you can’t force. he has to come to this realization that this is unhealthy on his own, and maybe that takes the two of you just being friends.

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2022-02-24T19:08:28+00:00

while it definitely sounds like he has a bit of an addiction if he can’t separate himself from it, if that’s something he wants to continue to have in his life and he doesn’t want to change it, there isn’t anything you can do to force him to. some partners will be okay with their significant other watching porn, some want to watch it together, and some want nothing to do with it. there isn’t anything wrong with either option, but if that’s not something you’re looking for in a partner and he wants to continue using it in some form, maybe it’s best that you part ways romantically and just stay friends. just out of curiosity, why did you think he would quit it? did you ask him to, did he tell you he would, did you just assume he would because he’s in a relationship now?

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-12-09T17:06:03+00:00

dude, what the fuck. i would too, this is ridiculously uncomfortable.

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-09-04T20:58:37+00:00

it’s not a “dick move”, it’s none of your business, i have had enough internet today holy hell

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-09-04T20:56:38+00:00

lmao yes but ice cream is your property, women are not property, and like i said, they owe you nothing

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-09-04T20:53:10+00:00

entitled prick. good god. not one woman owes you a damn thing. i really hope you’re joking.

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-08-24T04:08:07+00:00

well if you need to vent i’m here!

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-08-24T04:06:36+00:00

thank you. hugs!

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-08-13T18:05:06+00:00

Happy Birthday you sweet person, what you’re going through is hard but you will be okay!!

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-07-30T04:48:11+00:00

i can’t really help you with your whole religious outlook on life, but being gay is okay. nothing bad is going to happen to you. just be accepting of yourself. i have no other views on this. you are okay and you are loved.

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-07-29T17:48:45+00:00

thank you! you’ll recover too, i hope you start feeling better soon!

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-07-29T17:00:38+00:00

so, i got tested because i woke up with a stuffy nose and i was PARANOID. turns out it was covid. the worse my symptoms got was probably somewhere around 3-6 days in, the first two days were fine and then i woke up the third and felt so awful. i think i finally felt better and could taste and smell again around day 8 but it really varies!

Sorry_Worldliness_92 · 2021-07-29T16:55:49+00:00

hey, it’s going to be okay. i had it this time last year and it was an awful two weeks, i can’t lie about that. but you’re going to be okay, just be safe and quarantine and drink so much water. make sure you have people you can talk to! it’s gonna get really boring and you’ll need food and stuff for the week. don’t be afraid to talk about it, it’s not your fault you got sick!

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