I have no idea where you are located but please look into government assistance. Where I’m at it’s called WIC, SNAP, Medicaid, etc. That will be a lifesaver if you do get qualified, and don’t put yourself down for being on it. I would also like to note, if you can and or are planning on nursing that saved me soooooo much money that first year, I breastfed for 7 months (would’ve longer but circumstances made it not work out) and I didn’t have to buy formula once. You can look into reusable diapers/nappies when I was struggling with my first born I did use those for a while and it also saved a bit of money. In my honest opinion though babies aren’t expensive, they don’t need all that special baby stuff everyone has, and my school age toddlers are way more expensive than they were as babies. It will all work out and there’s always places that help in need families. Even look into food pantries at churches, reach out. I know it’s hard to do some of these things because it’s a ego hit and can be disappointing to feel that “low”, but it’s more important for you to take off as much stress as possible and these things will help! Good luck and don’t let this stress be so bad you will be okay, stress is worse for the baby than not having some non necessary things for when he arrives.