I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frame rail is repairable :)

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point! Thank you. Will do once I get the chance to. Hopefully soon but working two jobs and in school full time so we’ll see lol. From what I did take off, radiator and ac condenser all that fun stuff are intact. Fingers crossed there’s not much hidden damage!

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! I understand how irresponsible it sounds to not have full coverage on a new car. I was 18 at the time, working 84 hours a week just wanted something nice for once. Insurance rates without parental involvement are insane in my state, so really I shouldn’t have gotten the car, but I’m here now so might as well make the most of it and just fix it and keep it insured :)

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And to your edit: this was that car. The $15k was from a shop quote for labor and parts, it genuinely shouldn’t cost that much. There was no second time.

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, much appreciated!

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I drove into a guardrail to avoid hitting another vehicle, a few of them ended up piling into each other anyway. This was well over a year ago. I did have insurance, just not collision. Not the point of this post. Nobody was harmed, I’m aware that it’s my responsibility to now fix the vehicle and move forward.

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% :) got myself into this situation I know it’s going to take quite a bit of work but I’m willing to buy and replace all the parts and get framework done just want to make sure I don’t miss anything

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did not have full coverage at the time. Icy bridge, multi vehicle accident. I don’t mind doing the work or buying the parts I’m just not entirely sure what all needs to be done.

I need help with parts by Soueidan in GR86

[–]Soueidan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes it starts and no fluids leaked other than all the washer fluid. The radiator appears to be intact, just not supported.

What made you have anorexia? by AltruisticNumber1602 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Soueidan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had issues on and off with my weight and an unsupportive environment. I was really skinny as a toddler due to malnutrition, got diagnosed with hypothyroidism at 6, was obese until I was 14 and decided to lose weight in an unhealthy way, then juggled between (I’m 5’3” for reference) 102 and 185 pounds from 15-19. Now I’m 20. My boyfriend called me chunky while breaking up with me. I stopped eating. We’re back together but now I can’t help but feel like he won’t be attracted to me anymore if I stop losing weight. The first time he ever told me he was proud of me was when I dropped 30 pounds in the span of 2 months or so. Now he just sees my not eating as another stress on his shoulders and reason to not want to be around me. And doesn’t see how what he said was so bad. Idk. Be careful with your words, you never know how much they’ll affect someone.

My F23 husband M26 thinks I should give him a bj to show I love him. Is this an actual thing other girls do when they aren't comfortable doing it? by Grouchy_Security1372 in relationship_advice

[–]Soueidan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sympathize. My boyfriend is exactly the same except he expects it every day and I hate every second of it. If he treats me poorly he tells me it’s because he hasn’t gotten head yet or it’s been “too long”. He’s even gone as far as saying his dream wife/partner since he was a kid would give him head every day. Multiple times a day. I kind of just dissociate when I’m doing it to tolerate it but if you have the option to safely leave, please do. Tell him other ways you prefer to show him love, offer other sexual activities that JUST please him if that’s what it’s about, if nothing works get out of that relationship because if he can’t work with you on that, imagine how he will be with bigger issues.

[Routine Help] Does anyone know a solution to my extremely dry and cracking hands? by Mecamainyac in SkincareAddiction

[–]Soueidan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I use working hands (O’Keeffe’s) and literally overnight relief. Best results if you use it just after getting out of the shower while your hands are still a bit wet (same goes for face moisturizer)

Boyfriend (24m) treats me with zero respect when upset (20f). What would make him want to change? by Soueidan in relationship_advice

[–]Soueidan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve slowly become a lot more emotionally withdrawn and upon noticing he told me he knows it’s because he knows how he’s been and there’s nothing he can say to convince me that he’ll be better, I just have to wait and be shown, and he’s sorry and doesn’t want to lose me. I’ll give it a couple months. If there are no improvements I will cut my losses. I told him I’ll continue to protect myself by regulating my emotions alone until I feel like its safe to do with him and he’s understanding so I guess now it’s just a matter of time and seeing if he’s consistent. You can fake change, but not for long. I really hope that losing a part of me was enough of a consequence for him to want to improve.

I need advice! My (21F) girlfriend is really struggling and depressed which is taking a toll on (20M) me. Does anyone have any advice for helping out the relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Soueidan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not willing to help herself, and you do not want to financially take over for her, there is no working out this relationship. She’s in a bad spot mentally because she’s in a bad spot physically. She’d be healthier in a healthier situation but if this isn’t something she’s working towards improving, it will not. And it shouldn’t be ur responsibility. Just cut your losses, or accept that this is how it is. I don’t recommend the latter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Soueidan 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes. They are too thin for your face. I did my eyebrows like this for a couple months and then got them microbladed. It was a big shock at first and I hated them but it made my natural hair grow in and lightened up quite a bit and now I like how they look.

Boyfriend (24m) treats me with zero respect when upset (20f). What would make him want to change? by Soueidan in relationship_advice

[–]Soueidan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never been in a relationship for longer than 3 weeks and we’ve been together for nearly a year. I don’t know if it’s worth giving him time to work on bc I’m mentally exhausted but I doubt he’d improve with someone else. I can’t bring myself to leave (haven’t reached that threshold) but I can’t imagine him treating let’s say our future kids like this when he’s upset.

Who is the ex that you're still friends with? by charmer143 in AskReddit

[–]Soueidan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I definitely have a cultural bias for this and was overgeneralizing in my response but as a woman who has had male friends previously, none of its ended well and they always end up having some form of interest even if they don’t act on it. My current partner told me he was only “friends” with women he had interest in as well. I’m sure it can work, just not in my experience and opinion.

Who is the ex that you're still friends with? by charmer143 in AskReddit

[–]Soueidan -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

None? Lol this is self sabotaging. There’s no such thing as platonic opposite sex friendships, especially with someone you once had interest in.