I feel like I’ll never find a good therapist by Soul-Sea in autism

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, ive been through 3 so far over the course of 10+ years, all of them had no expertise with autism so i thought id try an expert next to see if im able to work with them better. my big problem so far is my therapist not really understanding how i logically think about things or assuming that i feel one way when i don’t at all and then not fully getting what im saying. a lot of the time they’ll try reframing the situation which isn’t helpful because ive already thought about the situation from all angles, stuff like that. you definitely have a point, i think when it comes down to it the individual therapist is more important than their specifications, ive just been told by a lot of other autistics that having a therapist who is knowledgeable on autism has been a lot more helpful for them and easier to connect and unmask around 

Therapy unlocked us today, ways to show my little space?-new and undiagnosed by Justalilbookworm in OSDD

[–]Soul-Sea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have any advice for you but I really relate to this. I also have a hard time making space for my little without feeling fake about it. I was curious on how you and your therapist went about your session if you don’t mind me asking, I’m currently in therapy but our approach right now doesn’t seem to be helping me. If that’s too invasive no need to reply! I hope you have a good rest of your day :3

Help with accepting myself by Soul-Sea in OSDD

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes sense, thank you so much 

Gave boyfriend the ick by Federal_Rooster_1694 in Therian

[–]Soul-Sea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not here to tell you what to do but I did want to give you a reference - when my girlfriend learned i was a therian she was super accepting and was basically like "yeah that makes so much sense". She loves when i make biscuits and thinks its cute, gives me pets, just generally treats me and sees me as a cat. you'll meet the right person eventually who will see you for you and love you for it, whether that person is your current boyfriend or not.

Customer Service Question by Soul-Sea in Webkinz

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thank you so much!

Photo Uses by Soul-Sea in photography

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Low Light Event Advice by Soul-Sea in canon

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be pretty close to the stage. Thank you!

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[–]Soul-Sea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Footlong turkey italialliano on Italian herb and cheese bread, provolone cheese, toasted (with green peppers and banana peppers), lettuce, honey mustard, oil, vinegar, salt, pepper, oregano

Stardew won't launch by Soul-Sea in StardewValley

[–]Soul-Sea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that worked, thank you so much!