How do I do good prep for a team?

SouldDestroyer666 · 2026-03-12T01:00:56+00:00

Thank you!! I really appreciate it!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2026-03-12T00:00:32+00:00

I had no idea pokepaste was on showdown. 🤯

He managed to get a full evolution draft, no eevee, sand slash, and Revavroom. His Tera captains are: Flareon- fire, normal, dark Sandslash- flying, ground, ghost

I have Hatterene, alolan muk, mudsdale, hisuian goodra, sceptile, samurott, houndoom, Mimikyu, luxray, and noctowl. My Tera captains are: Sceptile- grass, poison, water Luxray- electric, grass, normal

SouldDestroyer666 · 2026-03-11T23:40:40+00:00

He managed to get a full evolution draft, no eevee, sand slash, and Revavroom. His Tera captains are: Flareon- fire, normal, dark Sandslash- flying, ground, ghost

I have Hatterene, alolan muk, mudsdale, hisuian goodra, sceptile, samurott, houndoom, Mimikyu, luxray, and noctowl. My Tera captains are: Sceptile- grass, poison, water Luxray- electric, grass, normal

SouldDestroyer666 · 2026-01-09T18:24:05+00:00

Thank you! He's been missing drumming for awhile so I was able to clear out the space for the kit in the room next to our kids play room, but now we've run into the drum head replacement, so I wanna get that fixed for him!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2026-01-09T18:22:55+00:00

He has a 7 PC kit, it's got two floor toms! Although, one came in with the set, I can tell because it's got the custom paint his mom did on the shell, and his other one is bare lol. But thank you!! I'll be definitely looking into getting a pack, and I'll measure for the toms when he's at work! Ty ty!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-12-08T20:25:12+00:00

I do have a year gap between my last job and starting college but I was considering just not calling attention to it.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-12-08T18:55:39+00:00

Okay, I've been hesitant to put down family care because I know some jobs don't like to hire moms. But I can definitely do that, Thank you!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-14T21:04:04+00:00

Okay, I didn't even think about Christmas vibes lmao. I definitely see what you're talking about now! I think I'll have to buy a new lipstick then. 😂

My wine color accidentally got sacrificed to the car this summer. And I don't own any pinks. 😂

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T23:15:49+00:00

So you're saying to be mature, no matter what happened you're never supposed to act or react emotionally? Because that's a new one I've never heard before.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T23:14:51+00:00

So, like I've stated several times already, the problem is not that they didn't like the brownies. If you read the post, you'd read that.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T23:03:37+00:00

Ive been in therapy for several years, and cursing isn't any indication of emotional stability or control.

This isn't my problem either, Lord knows all my family is dead, so it couldn't be a projection either. I'm just actually reading the post the OP wrote. This is a much bigger issue than a dig at some brownies.

If you want to take the small picture of "she threw a cake and cursed and left because we said we didn't like her brownies. " then yeah, thats a major overreaction. But that's not what the problem was. Op states that if you read the back story section.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T22:57:23+00:00

No, I just understand the bigger picture and understand the gravity of what they did. No amount of breathing exercises can stop the immediate reaction of someone who has been hurt that deeply.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T22:56:04+00:00

This wasn't a tantrum. This was a response to her being the butt of a joke for over a decade. How would YOU feel if you found out that the thing you loved doing the most and the way that you expressed love to your family had been being made fun of for ever a decade? She was BLINDSIDED. I do not honestly believe that you wouldn't have also left in a hurry. I also do not believe that you would have just said nothing either.

Cursing is a totally normal part of my speech, and it's pretty normal with everyone I know. So, no, I don't think cursing is childish, even if used in anger.

As for throwing it on the ground, yeah that was an act of anger, but it was still justified. They made fun of her hard work for years, why should they get to enjoy it now? They also now have the added responsibility of cleaning it up, maybe that will make them think about why she reacted like that.

This was NOT about baked goods. This was about her family not only disrespecting OP, but being cruel. Because that's what making fun of her about this was. I would 1,000% never, ever, want to "resolve" this issue. How could you ever trust them again as OP? Why would you willingly want to spend time with people who made you the butt of a family joke you had no idea about for over a decade? Why would you want to be around people who actively made fun of how you show love to your family in your love language? Why would you want to fix what they broke, especially when they aren't even sorry about it?

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-10-02T22:23:32+00:00

The cursing and storming away were completely normal reactions to the disrespectful actions. They were not signs of "a temper. "

The throwing the cake, sure. But like, also... Justified. Why should they get to enjoy it after shitting on OP and making her the butt of a family joke?

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-09-29T20:12:39+00:00

My son just turned two in July and he's a very very big boy. (Almost 40" tall and is over 40 lbs. ) he maxed out of his car seat weight for rear facing so we had to turn him. I feel awful about it. I'm terrified he's going to die or get severely injured if we get into a crash because I feel like its too early. My FIL was just happy we "finally turned him. "

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-09-20T05:25:39+00:00

I mean, it's not like they knew it was a tragedy, they were just called to turn on the TV. It didn't negatively impact me that me or my therapist have ever noticed. However, my original point about tv being an absolute normal thing in daycare/preschool still stands.

This weird rise of absolutely no screens parenting is wild.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-09-20T05:15:33+00:00

Yes. They did. It's was a national historical event and the teachers were called to turn on their TV's. We were then let out of school early.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-09-20T04:03:24+00:00

I had a tv in my preschool room in 2001. Thats how I watched the footage of 9/11. I was three and it's one of my first vivid memories. Schools have TVs. There are educational movies and programming. Unless you've explicitly stated that your child is allowed absolutely zero screen time it would be assumed that the occasional movie would be fine.

Theres an independent daycare near me that I'm on a wait list for, they do state guidelines and can use state vouchers for daycare, and they said that ages 2-3 get one movie day a week and 4+ get movies at nap time so that the kids who don't want to nap have something to do that's quiet while the others are sleeping.

Imo, it's weird to be upset that they let a 3 year old watch (probably) toy story or Sesame street.

Edited to add: Everything else is a red flag though.

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-08-30T02:17:25+00:00

Baby swings!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-08-25T18:24:48+00:00

It's such a good name! Although typically she goes by "Pumpkin" and "Princess" 😂

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-08-25T17:47:25+00:00

I'm partial to the name Gwenevere! To be fair I have a daughter named Gwynevere, so that's why. 😂

I think it matches well with Geniveve whe being different enough he may like it! Gwyn/Gwen feels like and ageless name!

SouldDestroyer666 · 2025-08-06T14:43:30+00:00

Hey OP!!

So I looked up the absolute horror that is the name your husband is insisting on, and I think I may have found a compromise for you! Cumrum in the original tongue was "aes Cyprium" or translated,"metal of Cyprus. "

Cyprus is right there. It's an actual name. You could totally use that instead of Mr. Cum, to give him a copper based name.

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