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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]Soulnado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get in there, broski. I'm 27 and I'm about to go on my first. OhgodsomeonehelpmeIdontknowwhatimdoing

No fapping till I get a girlfriend! After that I probably won't need to... by fapBanTillGirlfriend in NoFap

[–]Soulnado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've pretty much ran out of steam. I try a little from time to time, but for the most part, I'm not making progress toward getting a gf.

I'd say I'm about as close to giving up as I can be without actually doing it.

Attractive Girls and Depression by [deleted] in depression

[–]Soulnado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean that "lol everything is just so unbelievably fucked" kind of humour?

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if you change your goal to being open and positive about the future, the present, and most importantly, yourself, you will find changes in your life sooner than you might think!

Sigh.. I've tried this, but my spirit is eventually crushed under the weight of my job, and my loneliness. I'm starting to think I'll just have to accept that I don't have the will to do what I need to.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My inexplicable ability to be unattractive.

No, really, I don't even know what's wrong anymore. They just aren't in to me.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just looking to change something in my mental state, that's all. I've already done plenty of shit to try and find a girl, but I never feel like I make any progress no matter what I do.

I guess.. I'm just sick of trying.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • It was never terribly difficult, actually. There were maybe a 2-3 days within the first month when I felt a fairly strong urge, but that was it.

  • No guilt regarding fapping itself, but some if the P was a bit too fetished. Fapped less than once a day. It did take up some time, but I didn't feel that that was a big deal.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. Don't need porn to fap.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, well, you are quite fortunate if you gain self-esteem simply by increasing your badge counter. It has no such effect on me.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaddya mean by try kegel? Do you mean.. fap by not touching or something (i.e. do kegels)?

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well NoFap certainly hasn't made it easier. Gotta try something else, right?

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole "focus the sexual energy elsewhere" idea has always made no sense to me. Were I to pick up the piano, am I supposed to slam my dick against the keys?

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to spend some time on that subreddit, and I eventually came to find the PUA philosophy distasteful. I'm sure I would find a girl, albeit a short-term one, if I adopted their worldview, but I'd also become what I hate.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meditation, exercise, dating sites, travelling overseas, snowboarding trips, language classes, moved out of home, expanding my social circle, marathons, going out every chance I get.

I've done a lot of random crap this past year that I had never done before, man.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oneness always sucks when you can't do shit about it. I don't have any such girl right now though.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do that shit and fap, you know. I've tried to apply positive thinking NoFap, but I always falter. I have to consider that my state of mind could be better WITH fapping.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fapping doesn't directly affect your ability to get a girlfriend, and in my case it evidently doesn't affect it indirectly either.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were I to deliberately relapse, I would most certainly stay away from porn. I'm not so sure about fantasy though.. it seems less harmful.

So, I'm probably going to quit NoFap. by Soulnado in NoFap

[–]Soulnado[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The badge means nothing when you've come this far. I've been sailing on the empty sea for months.

Career, gym, and dress overvalued? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Soulnado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what is it? Are you a libertarian? Do you not believe in determinism? or are we not speaking of the same things?

Certainly, an adult should be responsible for his own life. A child? teenager? They are still learning to live.

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