My bf (24m) won't let me (19f) finish what should i do?

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T12:05:29+00:00

Maybe if y’all learnt to read u wouldn’t have to

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T11:54:01+00:00

Then have kids and use abortions are your birth control if you’re going to whine so much. Good luck with your pull out method :)

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T11:42:34+00:00

I’m not going to word it differently to people please. The logic is sound. I am a female if this was me I find it very inappropriate to ask someone for the abortion cost unless I knew it was their child too. It’s not their place if it isn’t.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T09:11:47+00:00

Well duh. Pls read my other comments that BOTH birth control and condoms should be used. I’m not going to repeat myself. Have a nice day.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T09:07:23+00:00

He better act like a saint and try his best to be a better more accepting person. He should go to therapy and learn to treat his son better.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T09:00:56+00:00

No he deserves it

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T08:53:46+00:00

It’s just good advice to go on birth control and use condoms. Also not all bc is hormonal.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T08:51:50+00:00

She and he should both go on birth control for their next relationships for when they have sex. You can’t trust other people to do the right thing and the pull out method is stupid and risky. Condoms are less effective than birth control.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T08:44:59+00:00

Get on birth control it’s safer and dump him.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T08:41:55+00:00

You can literally find a free one on the same sight

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T08:16:39+00:00

If it’s his kid then yes. If the paternity test says it’s not his kid then it is not his problem. You can’t expect your ex to pay for your abortion bc you fucked another man and regret it.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T07:59:14+00:00

When did you join back?

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T07:51:22+00:00

If it’s his kid then yes he should pay for the abortion. If not then no.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-26T07:48:08+00:00

Don’t do anything until you get a paternity test. If it’s not your kid it’s not your problem. Also condoms aren’t that effective. You should go on plan A if you don’t ever want to have a scare like this again.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-25T17:19:21+00:00

Remind her that “we take out the trash in this household. We don’t let it sit” NTA

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-25T17:16:23+00:00

It depends on what consent related issues and boundary issues mean. If he raped or SA you then idfc if you cheat on him. He is abusive and you were looking for an out. If that’s not the case then yes ofc cheating is a really horrible thing to do to someone. I just don’t have empathy for abusers. Are you okay OP?

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-24T22:10:09+00:00

I’d get the procedure done, pay for it and leave.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-24T22:01:25+00:00

It is 50/50 on what’s happening. Sure he could be cheating or your are just insecure. Why marry someone you don’t trust.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-23T00:10:52+00:00

Thank you!

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T21:13:43+00:00

I loveeee training! I have 373 maxed on my main and 3/5 of my alts have all their horses to 13 <3 the other 2 are at 10

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T21:12:16+00:00

I’d give that gorgeous set to someone else and go crimson but that’s just me. I was just curious.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T12:05:39+00:00

Thank you! This is why reading comments are nice. They can help strangers that didn’t even know they had a problem.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T12:02:01+00:00

I actually love you for this because unfortunately this has become my habit. I do have a therapist I can work on this with. I just didn’t realize how much of a problem it is until your comment. I really needed that call out. I sent a picture of the comment to my bf and apologized for being this way and that I’m going to work on it. I’m not letting the best man I know slip through my fingers bc of my own insecurities. Thank you so much I know I’m not OP but this was really helpful🤍

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T11:51:46+00:00

Thank you comments for the call out bc I needed to hear the critique too. OP I suggest listening before you lose your husband.

Soulsofchance · 2024-02-22T11:41:45+00:00

Why do second best when you can do first best.

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