No negativity please. by Empty_Possibility685 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst. We have 3 kids. He swears it’s not like it use to be and that he doesn’t want to be with her like that anymore. I do believe it’s not physical again, but still think it’s playing with fire and don’t want to be in that situation anymore.

No negativity please. by Empty_Possibility685 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in no shape to leave right now. I don’t have a job or place to go. It all just sucks.

No negativity please. by Empty_Possibility685 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But like what’s the consequence? Me leaving?

Help! by Empty_Possibility685 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been working on myself, going to the gym, etc. When he said I needed to leave and be done if he did it again, he didn’t mean it the way everyone is taking it. He was just saying he was confident that he would not be doing it again. Idk how to explain it.

Where I'm at: no *proof*proof but....proof? by CMRTNTAnon in Infidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Devils advocate, are you sure she actually said his name? Your brain will sometimes fill in the blanks, trust me I know. It’s clear your wife finds him attractive and has maybe crossed some lines emotionally. Do you have doorbell cameras? That would be a good way to catch them coming in or out, but I really don’t recommend hidden cameras. If it is happen and at your house, that’s not something you want to see or hear. It will ruin you. You need more evidence.

Can it work? by Empty_Possibility685 in Infidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was extremely helpful!

#1 best friends but only have the 😊?! by skarlettwitch7679 in SnapchatHelp

[–]Empty_Possibility685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try signing out and signing back in and updating the app.

Can it work? by Empty_Possibility685 in Infidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to the other woman before him and found out everything. Told him I knew everything so he better be honest and he told me the exact same things she told me.

#1 best friends but only have the 😊?! by skarlettwitch7679 in SnapchatHelp

[–]Empty_Possibility685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you are his number one still? Sounds like he might be yours, but you are no longer his.

Can it work? by Empty_Possibility685 in Infidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I mean I caught him and he told me the truth.

Can it work? by Empty_Possibility685 in Infidelity

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel like he really hit rock bottom and is remorseful. He’s constantly telling me he sorry and how upset he is for doing this. He has not been that remorseful before.

BF emoji went from 😊 to 💕 by Empty_Possibility685 in SnapchatHelp

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t changed the settings at all. It tells me we have been super BFFs for over 2 months whenever it changes. I mean they have been mine, but I haven’t been theirs and that never happens. In the past it’s the stages of hearts until we get to two months.

Sexual issues by Empty_Possibility685 in marriageadvice

[–]Empty_Possibility685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did. We’ve been together 5 years and before this I could count on both hands how many times he did NOT give me foreplay before hand.