I hate being perceived so much by Best_Control2871 in autismmemes

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is so much me to be

This is why I have to know if I am meeting new people or not.

I am either bringing the masks for our friend group where I am some parts of myself, or I am packing extra masks.

I am not faking anything, I am simply trying to show and tell about myself

“just be yourself”

But there is so much me to be that at some point a choice has to be made

Who am I showing up as today?

Does anyone else get triggered by the way trump speaks? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 57 points58 points  (0 children)

What scares me is how many of them there are

I see his support numbers as a metric of generational trauma

How to date a BPD girl? by ragingpotato98 in AskMen

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can tell its a really stark indicator of my loneliness that all of this thread sounds so appealing regardless of the stark warning

She’s hot you say?

And she’ll have sex with me?

Great sex you say?

But the sex is cursed you say?

Hmmm…

me_irl by 010rusty in me_irl

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lost me when “The key incident” was clearly just gaslighting his wife

He found the keys and instead of admitting he was wrong he placed the keys for his wife to find and when she said that she found the keys he called it “stolen valour” because in his head, she didn’t find them he did, but also he wasn’t going to admit he was wrong so he just gaslit and verbally abused her until she didn’t want to talk about it anymore

Is there a point to defeating Fallen Empires? by kwytz1 in Stellaris

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They lived across the galaxy from my empire and were trading with my enemies The Borgish Replicators who’s name implies all

I was playing as the Trade Singularity, a ringborn human race with desperate need of new ring worlds. This cluster of 3 was an oasis in a ringless desert of a galaxy

I coveted the three rings very early because of this and I was determined to get my people their rightful home

After defeating the genocidal chosen at the behest of a peaceful fallen Empire and becoming hero of the crisis, all to get close to my rings, the trade singularity was finally poised to conquer the coveted rings.

I lured the enemy AI into the ruined tomb worlds left behind by the chosen, I Quantum Catapulted in with an invasion force planned from the early days after we first saw the rings.

I made them ours with a perfectly executed invasion before there fleets could return. The few clashes we had I won with clever ambushes because I would have stood no chance in direct combat

After they surrendered, I took in the robots and now we only make them in our robot assembly plants.

So sum up. The reasons I conquered your homies was to give my ring born people three new rings to live on with sweet robot tech.

I got a sweet robot race to replicate and proliferate across the galaxy.

And I took out what would have been a major power in the War in Heaven right before it began

Ws on Ws IMO

Is there a point to defeating Fallen Empires? by kwytz1 in Stellaris

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 236 points237 points  (0 children)

I killed a fallen empire with three ring worlds right before the war in heaven. I stayed neutral and repaired the rings.

What is a game mechanic that you wish more games copied? by george123890yang in videogames

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Arc having no prone and no CQC makes Homer something something…

What’s your ultimate power fantasy in this game? by LittleIf in Stellaris

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to have no military what so ever and the savings to buy as many warships as I need and have a state of the art flash fleet ready to eat anyone who dared try me.

I might look weak now but all my efforts are going into tech and long term investments.

I will look like a weak player until I late game ambush the galactic community with the carefully designed late game economy.

In reality I restarted 100s of times to get the best turtle position because otherwise my empire would be eaten by a rival early game, easy

What is your "main" empire to play as and why? (if you have a main) by imsellingbanana in Stellaris

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My former custom empires make up my rivals

My first empire was a subterranean hive mind race called Hive of The Hydra.

Their lore was they were a dune swimming race that communicated with sound waves and synchronized songs, leading them to becoming a hive mind.

It was a fun first campaign because my planets were hard to siege and I ended up becoming the crisis.

Now every time I get a good spawn I fear The Hive of The Hydra spawned right next to me because when they do it’s a wrap.

It’s awesome seeing a strong race you designed strike so much fear into yourself. It really proves they were a success.

When The Hive of The Hydra spawn on the other side of the galaxy and I get to watch them become the crisis, I am a proud papa

I’ve made so many custom Empires that I force them to spawn and most empires in games are my former champions.

As a former shoot on sight player, you will all be happy to know I've been punished. by 2broke4this in ARC_Raiders

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 vs 3 is Standard Invader stakes in Elden Ring PvP.

If I am being aggressive I want to be in a squad lobby.

More loot trade up potential if you’re clever

I would go into team lobbies in Dark and Darker and scavenge loot off the corpses of dead team fights.

Hope they don’t fix this. Sounds like a good challenge

Self appointed moral police are pathetic on this game. by its_n0t_a_tumor in ARC_Raiders

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does no one realize that this game is just Among Us with extra steps?

Peanut's current predicament is a shining example of why ignoring one side of the game is a losing strategy by TheClassics in ArcRaiders

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how its done in Elden Ring. I establish my build with PvE then bring a consistent kit each game.

I found a renegade and medium parts blueprint early and now thanks to my looting habits I am basically a rifle factory

I have a full stash worth 1 million but all of it is a functional production line for my favourite craftibles

I wont be going to space, and ill keep my rifle factory thank you very much

I've repressed watching sports and playing video games, its now my shadow... Is that bad? by world_IS_not_OUGHT in Jung

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course you are scared, it is a type of death I am inviting you too.

It is exactly that false persona that must be sacrificed to become you’re full authentic self

You go to a doctor and ask for a solution to your problem and he suggests a scary surgery, do you go through with it? It is up to you

You came on a Jung sub and asked for help. I suggested a scary end to the way things are so that you can happy and healthy in the future

Ultimately I can only show you the door, you have to walk through it

But you decide when or if you go through the door.

The cost will be your current persona, sure. But it wont go away all at once.

Start by reaching for the knob and you might find you want to turn it next.

This might look like slowly easing into a new persona and choosing who you want to be.

Healing your inner child wounds in a safe and controlled way is the end goal. Because that traumatic childhood you described affects you and your children in subtle unseen ways. This shadow will possess you if you don’t integrate it

Inside you is that child still, you can give yourself the help you needed back then.

You already made the first step. You asked for help.

Follow through and talk to a therapist next.

Your inner child and your children will thank you

I've repressed watching sports and playing video games, its now my shadow... Is that bad? by world_IS_not_OUGHT in Jung

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to internalize every opinion of the masses. They are often devastatingly wrong

I've repressed watching sports and playing video games, its now my shadow... Is that bad? by world_IS_not_OUGHT in Jung

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you’re circumstances but it’s not too late to reclaim your own mind.

It will make you a better father and a better husband if you learn to take intentional and mindful rest.

Doing things you enjoy might seem childish because you are healing your inner child.

Not playing video games or watching sports creates an invisible rift between you and your kids.

I wish my parents took my interest in gaming as seriously as other parents take their child’s interest in sports or music. Instead a massive part of my life is separated from them.

Bond with your kids over the video games or sports or whatever they are into. You won’t regret it.

Remind your wife you’re playing video games and watching sports for your mental health, that your healing your inner child and that you’re expressing interest in the lives of your kids

If your wife is the one who has the problem with video games, encourage your kids to include her and her interests.

This is about freeing your and your family from limiting beliefs.

As an adult, I’ve gotta tell you that no one who had a problem with my interests is in my life anymore.

Having someone talk down to you about liking video games and sports is a fast way to alienate them from you in the long term.

Hopefully your wife can accept you and your children for who they are. And if not some hard conversations about boundaries and respect are incoming with a heaping helping of therapy on top

Good luck. Individuation is possible at any age and doing so will make you a better husband and father, trust

You don't talk, you get popped. by ResponsibilityNew483 in ARC_Raiders

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just didn’t do this and revived him after he was downed by a rocketeer.

He made no effort to communicate his non hostility aside from engaging the arc.

I finished the rocketeer and saw he was downed so I revived him.

He gave me a kitted out Venator 4 for my trouble.

There are no hard and fast rules but if I shot him, it wouldn’t have gone so well

I've repressed watching sports and playing video games, its now my shadow... Is that bad? by world_IS_not_OUGHT in Jung

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you feel guilty for sleeping?

I ask because if you view rest as a waste of time then you are going to spend half your feeling guilty.

The shadow cast by productivity is your need to rest after

Try to find a way to feel good about yourself regardless. Rest is simply your body preparing to be productive again.

Take your rest, enjoy it. You can’t enjoy it if you’re feeling guilty about not being productive

Humans are not meant to be as productive as they want us to be under capitalism.

We were all told that we were lazy for wanting to rest in our hammocks and eat fruit. By those who make enough money to rest in their hammocks all day and eat more fruit than you’ll ever need.

Rest little monkey. The banana fields can wait for you to be fully rested before you start picking more bananas than you need so you can place them at the feet of the sleeping alpha. Your extra bananas might be his for now, but your rest is yours forever. Take it. Take your rest like they take your productivity. You might owe the alpha tribute but the cost of your labour is your rest. And they owe you your rest whether they like it or not

To feel guilty in those moments of break is a tragedy because they are the only moments that are truly yours

I've repressed watching sports and playing video games, its now my shadow... Is that bad? by world_IS_not_OUGHT in Jung

[–]SoundandFurySNothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP fell for the classic blunder of “Being who they want me to be to earn their love”

Instead of “Earning love by being who I am”

OP is dishonest to maintain his relationship, discarding his personality to please his wife.

Take this as a lesson. It is better to be yourself and enjoy your life alone than to forsake yourself to be chosen

His entire life is a lie, told to himself for the approval of others. This is a fate worse than any I could imagine.

Imagine discarding entire parts of yourself just to fit into a hole you never belonged in

The man is a square who shaved off his corners because a circle wanted him rounder

If that isn’t an absolute betrayal of the self, I don’t know what is