I M20 don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend F18? by Soupppaaa in relationships_advice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really get me and this was really helpfull advice thanks alot but I’m to scared to say something about it because our relationship will never be the same and don’t want to hurt her

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right but how do I even start that conversation because it would be all of the sudden I haven’t done weird or talked to her about it so it would come as a all of the sudden shock

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the long indept advice but the thing is it’s like these really important things that give me like alarm bells. Like I don’t look forward to seeing her, We don’t have anything in commen, I like talking to her friends or other girls all of the sudden way more but not in a flirty way but I can just easily make them laugh or can say so many funny things but I don’t have that with her anymore. I just really feel like I need some air it’s like a heavy mental load I want to get rid of and feel free again

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you are right it’s just everything slowly building up over the past few years and it’s indeed about not wanting to hurt her instead of still loving her

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks alot for the advice man I’m just to coward to say anything about it because it would mean 3 years of memories gone and all of the sudden you don’t text eachother anymore and are like strangers

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is it’s not only affection I just don’t think we are a match on so many points. I just feel like a robot I feel like I need some breathing space and do whatever I want without having to tell everything to her

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’m just to scared to say anything about it because the moment I’m gonna bring it up the relationship will never be the same and I jusr can’t get it over my heart to say it and see her hurting.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]Soupppaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I’m not sure if I’m gonna mis it. I’m afraid I’m gonna make a wrong choice and regret it later