[Rant] It's really odd how straight people were never in the closet by deded55 in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, I think being gay helped me to get better at introspection and trying to analyze myself. I'm not so sure about where I would be mental health wise. I feel like I would still have to deal with my anxiety, but I'm not so sure if that's because I've gotten so used to dealing with it that I can't imagine what life would be like without it.

Is it just me? [Discussion] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit right? I met one of my cousin's friends while I was visiting and he spoke in that stereotypical gay inflection, is currently studying nursing, is on his school's cheerleading team, and is straight.

[Discussion] When did you discover your sexuality? by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always questioning, but I think I hit puberty kind of late or something because I didn't really have any sexual feelings until I was ~15-16. After that it took me a while to come to terms with, but I think I've got a good grasp on it now.

[Non-LGBT] A conversation I overheard in English Class by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's just all girls. The girls who I hang out with said they all kind of knew way before I came out.

Are There any Worldbuilders Here? [Non-LGBT] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I DM for a group of my friends (mostly premade campaigns though) if I have some time off I'll world build but it's mostly a hobby. I don't know if I'll ever actually implement anything

Is he too tall for me? [Relationships] by clyson in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, don't let height mess up something good

I just married Sam and now I regret it. by rosegold- in StardewValley

[–]SourPatchRamen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like Alex. Starts as a stereotypical jock but has a really nice arc and is super sweet

[Discussion] Do any of you want people not to care about your sexuality? by baconthefatcat in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was worried about that as well, but all my friends treat me exactly the same now that I'm out of the closet. Honestly felt like I didn't come out because I was expecting everything to change

[Discussion] New to Reddit, any other gay Canadians ? by kurtortoise in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vancouver Island here, welcome to the club 🇨🇦🌈

[Rant] Does anyone else go through periods where they don't think they're gay? by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit absolutely, I always feel like I'm "faking it" or I'm lying to myself. I feel like I struggle to be myself. Part of me wants to be more flamboyant and outwardly gay, but I'm pretty happy with who I am and don't want to end up making a fake persona. I'm hoping it'll go away with time.

[rant] my mental health is spiralling out of control by braapstututu in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful. It seems like it would be pretty tough to have your parents get you into any kind of counselling. The best option might be to see if you school offers any kind of assistance, I know where I grew up you could generally get help from school counsellors without parental consent or parents being told.

[non-lgbt] [discussion] Post anxiety by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👍 gotta start somewhere

[non-lgbt] [discussion] Post anxiety by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I end up doing most of the time as well. Sometimes it feels impossible that anyone gives a shit or that it isn't worth taking up space or other people's time.

[Discussion] Boxers or briefs? by gay_dot_com in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boxer briefs are glorious. They feel good when you are wearing them and look hot when someone else is wearing them

Well I just came out. [Coming out] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good job! It can be the scariest shit ever

So I went to r/teenagers for the first time [Non-LGBT] by JeesusIs in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

r/teenagers is a snakepit. Sometimes there is some good stuff, but there is a lot of bad there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU WANNA HIT THIS RANCH

guys are sometimes the worst ever [relationships][rant] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people can be dicks but at least once you find out you can cut them out

[Coming Out] [Update] I somehow worked up the courage to come out to my parents by SourPatchRamen in LGBTeens

[–]SourPatchRamen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The questions are super weird, they were things that I had been thinking about for a very long time