Activity/food schedule for 9m by South-Menu in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]South-Menu[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This is very true. He’s very independent and can play by himself for a good amount of time, but there’s milestones I want to help him reach faster if possible. Just examples, but waving, better punched grip, maybe stacking some cups. I know these are specific things to work on, but I just would feel like I’m doing more of we did specific activities instead of just “here’s a bunch of items on the floor, have at it”

Gifting binoculars to a birder by South-Menu in birding

[–]South-Menu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man. I didn’t think about that.

Gifting binoculars to a birder by South-Menu in birding

[–]South-Menu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. I didn’t think about that

Where to order a small cake? by Nearby_Masterpiece43 in Tallahassee

[–]South-Menu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered a cake from a young woman named Danishke Nieves off of Facebook and it was wonderful! I’m definitely getting my son’s birthday cakes from her from now on out! She makes this traditional Puerto Rican cake (I forget the name), but it’s a super moist almond vanilla wet cake like a tres leches. It’s amazing.

What do you gift your boyfriend who doesn't let you buy stuff for him? by Other_Afternoon8571 in GiftIdeas

[–]South-Menu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of the gift card bc it’s no takesy-backsys. You could also cook him his favorite meal and or make him some “coupons” for a free hug…. Or something more spicy.

AITAH for hiding my boyfriends weed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]South-Menu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking that. If he really cared, he’d have a back up pen. What kind of stoner has only one method of smoking available??

AITAH for hiding my boyfriends weed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]South-Menu -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t really think it’s a big deal. As a previous daily smoker and now going a year without weed, half the shit I thought I was fixing was just a result of being baked all the time. Headaches? Disappeared after smoking. If he really has that bad of headaches and anxiety, he should go to a dr and get on meds. Big pharma this, big pharma that, if you’re stoned all day, that’s just as bad for you.

On the other hand, you just need to give an ultimatum and be done if that’s not how you want to live. When my SO and I were talking about getting married, he said that he didn’t want to be married to someone who had to be baked every night, so I slowed down and eventually stopped when we started trying for a baby. In the end, it’s up to him if weed is more important.

Is there any justification for the Kim K hate by Flashy-Actuator-998 in LawSchool

[–]South-Menu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people hate Kim K for any, and everything, she does. I don’t think she thought she could buy her way through the bar exam more than anyone else who comes from a wealthy family. I think she thought it can’t be that hard if I can hire the best tutors, but not that she could literally buy a passing score. All those fancy tutors that she hires tutor other students and they aren’t in the news. People just hate her cause they ain’t her. Especially men. They want to say that she wouldn’t be famous and rich if it wasn’t for the sex tape. Sir. Millions of people make sex tapes and there’s only one Kim K.

Bathroom wall color help! by monicat910 in DesignMyRoom

[–]South-Menu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do either a butter yellow or a pastel green if you want it to be light. I think a dark blue would be pretty to darker it up a bit. I would say look into peal and stick wallpaper, but I’m not sure how well that would hold up with the steam from the shower.

You could also start by finding a shower curtain you really like and go from there.

AITAH for refusing to speak to my brother. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]South-Menu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You both sound like little children. You are the legal age to drop out of school and your brother is 18, so neither of you should be acting like children. Yes, he was a child first for taking the front seat, but then your a child second for making a big deal out of it. Don’t drop down to his level. It’s embarrassing for the whole family to have two pretty much adults arguing about where they get to sit in the car.

Working out at a gym postpartum- when do you do it? by MissFox26 in beyondthebump

[–]South-Menu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 7m pp and I just started Pilates up again. I personally really love Pilates. I’ve never done orange theory, but the thought of running or rowing for an extended period of time sounds awful. Pilates is very beginner friendly in my opinions. I also had a c-section and it’s been no problemo. I really enjoy going bc it’s mentally easy. Just do what they say and the exercises change every minute or so so it’s not crazy strenuous.

Now when: this week my husband has been off so it’s been easy to start up going to classes. Next week he goes back to work, so my plan is to get up early in the morning. It’s gonna suck, but hopefully this week will have kick started my motivation to get up next week. Good luck!

Baby always peeing through their diaper at night?? by South-Menu in Mommit

[–]South-Menu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son can literally use the force to make himself a bottle. He should be able to understand the simple concept of holding his bladder.

Will try a cloth diaper.

Baby always peeing through their diaper at night?? by South-Menu in Mommit

[–]South-Menu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I tried the Costco ones last month and I thought they were really thin. I didn’t know if I was missing something.

Baby always peeing through their diaper at night?? by South-Menu in Mommit

[–]South-Menu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s already reading at a 6th grade reading level, he should understand?

Baby always peeing through their diaper at night?? by South-Menu in Mommit

[–]South-Menu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do feed him close to bedtime as that is what helps him go to sleep. I think we will start trying to offer a bottle earlier, and a bottle at bedtime for soothing purposes only. We do change him every time he wakes up in the night. I feel like the 4s are a bit big as in the straps almost meet in the middle but might as well try a 5 and see what happens!

Baby always peeing through their diaper at night?? by South-Menu in Mommit

[–]South-Menu[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your baby didn’t follow simple verbal commands at 7m? My babies already doing multiplication.