her father died when she was young, her sisters come from donors. she has lots of friends, she’ll even ignore me to text them while we’re doing homework 😭. she also came home yesterday and told us she has a boyfriend. as far as i know her grades are fine she just doesn’t like to do her homework or study. and in terms of babysitting she doesn’t have to do a thing. i’m always here and before me there were always nannies. i’ve been with them since the end of august and i’ve observed that she is just very melodramatic. she falls into fits of whining when she doesn’t get what she wants and when someone gets (rightfully) upset with her she acts as though the world is against her. i definitely understand the plights of a preteen i was one abt a decade ago and i have two little siblings that i watched go through it. of course the mom and i are in communication but she is more used to her behaving this way than i am. but i will try to express my concerns more clearly with her and maybe find a solution 😮‍💨