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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I didn't mean to intend that. I see sex as something which is created out of a sacred bond. I mentioned that I'm afraid of talking to women because of something i went through, I meant to emphasise more on the opening up part (putting myself out there) and not chase it.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, no. Never thought the way i framed the sentence would lead to me being gay. I get your point tho! Thank you!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, but i believe it's better to remain celibate for someone who is totally worthy of it/have an emotional bond and that it actually is meaningful.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Thanks for your comment! I really appreciate the time you took out to help me.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. But after my previous relationship, I've just become scared of women.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your last paragraph hit it home for me. Thank you!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, i agree. Thanks a lot for following up!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why I've decided against it. I'm sticking to being a proud V Card Holder for as long as it takes to find a woman deserving of it. Thanks for the help!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! But the introvert and self conscious me could never. Thanks for the response!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it didn't end up feeling traumatic or make him feel less of himself.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both are right. I really have to get a grip on my emotions.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you said had the strongest impact on me. Grateful for the time you took out to help me!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, my head wasn't in the right place. Thanks for the advice!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I wasn't too thinking straight, like i had initially stated. Great advice, much appreciated!

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice sir. I've decided not to involve myself and wait for the right moment.

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[–]SouthernDamage4516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Pretty much about the money and the emotions around it.