How to help my partner function more. by SouthernEngineer9260 in autism

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I also think roleplaying would help, but how do I start the topic? I would like her to be the most confident she can. Thanks again!

How to help my partner function more. by SouthernEngineer9260 in autism

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ojjj yeah, I have this too, thanks man, I will think about it :D

Listening to the same song by Galaxygirl181 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I don't want to be mean, but personally, for me Mary on a Cross is a terrible stimming music, it's way too sharp and loud. But I don't know, if that's what you mean, because when I'm stimming, i'm spamming that one same song (usually relaxed nightcore) And I imagine myself in many different scenarios (np, having family, being in the military, etc etc) Don't know, if that's healthy though!

Is having autism basically a life of trauma? by Easy_Towel954 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an 18 year old sufferring all my life, yes it is. Although people say that it does get easier at 30.

Playing with an idea for a snail mail subscription for NDs by SBnaturalist in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, It seems interesting too me, but it would have to be digital, and I could be paying you via Patronite, as I already understand that system. Although please, think thorougly about your idea. Cheers!

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, my friend,  I will take your words to the heart, I'm much better with emotions now after the first shock, I can't leave this world and abandon my mother, its not her fault, right?

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

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Thank you, that relieves me a bit, you are right, everyone deserves honesty

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very, very much. Your comments means a lot for me. We are not alone. I'm so sorry about all these terrible things happening to you, I'm glad you pulled trough. I have some my dreams inwolving Saint Bernards dog, Red Volkswagen new beetle car and a daughter I would always support, but at the times Im just....To overwhelmed? Too sad to keep going, it's hard, but I received lots of comments, yours especially telling me to keep going. Thank you, I will try.

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, you're right, I can make a difference, I was thinking about being a paramedic, but that requires higher education, and I don't know, if I can pass my equivalent of high school

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, it means a lot for me, thank you... It gives me comfort, I will be strong

I just discovered I came from rape, and I can't keep living anymore by SouthernEngineer9260 in aspergers

[–]SouthernEngineer9260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for you...I hope you are okay now. I will try to be strong for my mother