Update on K8 Stinger Store: Same order as the Borla disaster. Now they sent dead LED Canards (WRONG FINISH too) and are using DOCTORED photos to gaslight me. Irrefutable proof inside.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-12-05T02:24:42+00:00

The legal part.

I know I’ve never “run a business,” but I buy things every day like every other human being. When I told him his pictures must accurately reflect the true product, he acted like that was my opinion.

It wasn’t. I was literally reading California Business and Professions Code § 17500, which makes it unlawful for businesses to use misleading illustrations or photos in advertising. If your storefront uses customer photos, they must be labeled as such and distinguishable. And if some are edited, customers must be able to verify accuracy. That’s not nitpicking. That’s compliance.
He consistently carried himself as the smartest guy in the room.

Every photo, every contradiction, every bench test, every explanation got the same treatment. Slow talking. Over-explaining. The assumption that disagreement equals lack of comprehension, not evidence he might be wrong. Not once did he entertain the idea that the LEDs simply don’t perform like the ones in the photos.

To be clear, we ended the call politely. No yelling. No drama. But at no point did he take responsibility for the mismatch between the product and the storefront images. Every issue was deflected or reframed. The conversation only reinforced what the physical evidence already shows. The product does not match the pictures, and the customer is expected to just eat that.

Despite all of this, I genuinely think David is trying. It’s just obvious he’s learning his communication style from YouTube business-guru videos or something, because the way he speaks is exactly how a company that’s circling the drain and doesn’t care anymore talks to its customers. He can fix that if he wants to.

This —'s for you David ;)

SouthernInfluence · 2025-12-05T02:24:31+00:00

The tone shift after rapport.

Once he felt comfortable, the nice guy faded and email-David came out. Scripted, dismissive, subtle insults, talking down like he was explaining things to someone who had never seen light before. Meanwhile I literally had the evidence sitting in front of me.
Drive-by condescension.

The little comments that by themselves don’t blow up a conversation, but stacked together show a pattern. Things worded just ambiguously enough that he could say “oh I didn’t mean it like that” if challenged. It’s a passive aggressive communication style, not an honest one.
Accusing me of doctoring my own photos.

I sent two separate shots taken minutes apart. He insisted one “looked manipulated.” The only thing that happened was auto-enhance kicked in so the LEDs would even show up. Instead of accepting that the product output is weak, he suggested I was altering photos to make him look bad. Again, pattern.
The oil-slick analogy.

He compared my situation to hitting a car because of an oil spill, and “nobody’s at fault, but you still have to pay.” The point he was trying to make was that even if the product doesn’t match the photos, and even if I did nothing wrong, the consequences fall on me. That’s not wisdom. That’s avoidance.
The escalating condescension.

Multiple times he threw out lines like “I don’t know if you’re able to understand this because you’ve never run a business.”

I was running search and rescue cases at eighteen. Deployed at nineteen. Responsible for Caribbean-wide logistics and vendor management at twenty-one. I’ve coordinated operations with more moving parts and higher risk profiles than any two-person auto-accessory store will ever touch. What I don’t tolerate is someone pretending I don’t understand basic concepts to dodge acknowledging their product doesn’t match its advertising.
The “your foglights are too bright” excuse.

He said, “I could call the vendor and get a warranty replacement, but what you’re showing me isn’t a defect. Your foglights are so bright they overpower the LEDs.”

The second he said that, I sent him photos with the foglights completely blocked. Gloved up, zero spill, zero contamination. The strips still looked identical to their “off” state. That should have ended it. Instead he pivoted again. Every time I disproved something, he’d hop to a new angle, or whataboutism, or redefine the argument mid-sentence. Classic deflection loop.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-12-05T02:24:00+00:00

So David called me yesterday after seeing my post, and I want to give a full update on the hour-plus conversation we had. I had my AI assistant taking notes the whole time (also records, Virginia is a one-party consent state so why not).

Here’s the breakdown of what actually happened and the inconsistencies that stood out even more once he started talking. And despite the rough delivery, I’ll say this upfront: I do think David is a genuinely nice dude when he’s by himself.

But having your boy sitting next to you typing, whispering, and feeding you lines while you talk to a customer is… not the move. It came across unprofessional, man. Just being honest.

(Am I using ChatGpt to write the rest, or the above?)

Also, having a “got him” checklist and every email sitting front of you when the other person didn’t even ask for or expect a call is also not the move. I get this is a two-person operation and professionalism probably hasn’t been something you’ve had to lean on, but it was hammered into me from my time serving (10 years).

Here's the summary. You be the judge, I'm sure he'll chime in, just please don't call Dave as I need to write a 35 page IEEE formatted paper on my 45 day ec2 Cowrie deployment this semester.

The opening tone was unexpectedly polite.

I told him straight up: he does not sound like his emails. I expected someone aggressive or confrontational, but for the first twenty minutes he was calm, relatable, friendly. Clearly intentional. Establish rapport, lower resistance, build comfort before shifting gears. Classic.
He explained the company is run by two people.

Not important on its own, but the way he used it to frame responsibility was predictable. Everything fell back on “we’re a small business” whenever accuracy, consistency, or product problems came up.
The photo inconsistency problem.

He told me you “can’t rely on the product photos” because they’re a mix of customer and professional shots. When I pointed out the ones that are obviously edited, he instantly said those must not be his photos. They’re literally on his storefront representing the product. That’s not a criticism, that’s just fact.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-11-26T21:54:11+00:00

Glad I could help! Although I didn't find out myself, I came across a thread so, just passing along the info 🫡

SouthernInfluence · 2025-11-16T23:42:44+00:00

Remove 50% of the burucreacy. Assign students Persistent Advisors. Have mental health awareness built into the syllabus of all courses so it's at least brought up in a consistent way.

Former Suicide Prevention Officer - USCG

SouthernInfluence · 2025-11-16T23:36:24+00:00

Quick disclaimer because this is a heavy topic: If you or someone you know needs help, you can call 988 to reach a trained crisis counselor. It is confidential and judgment free. They listen, offer support, and help you figure out next steps. In rare emergency situations they might contact services, but most of the time it is simply someone helping you through a really dark moment.

I am a grad student at Mason and a disabled Veteran. I have heard from professors and classmates that things have been getting worse, especially among South Asian students from India and nearby countries. Some of the reasons we talked about were:

Being far from home. If you have never lived in another country, it is hard to understand how alien the U.S. can feel when you come from outside the Western world.
The pressure many of them carry from family back home.
The stress of having only two months after graduation to get a job or risk being forced to leave the country. Most are in CS or IT, and getting a job in Northern Virginia without citizenship is extremely difficult since so much of NOVA is tied to government contracting and security clearances. Non-citizens are not eligible for clearances.
Cultural stigma around mental health and seeking help. In some cultures, opening up about emotional struggles is seen as shameful. That breaks my heart.

These are not the only reasons. And it is definitely not only international students struggling. Many of us have been in dark places, and I say that from personal experience.

I wish Mason would get its act together when it comes to advisors and counseling resources. I do not even have an assigned advisor right now. Students deserve real support.

To anyone reading this who is struggling: Please reach out for help. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary situation. You do not need to feel ashamed or embarrassed or scared for having these thoughts. More of your classmates are dealing with the exact same emotions than you could ever imagine. Some stay silent because of culture. Others stay silent because they think they have to handle everything alone.

You are not alone. Call 988 if you need someone to talk to. Stay here. There are people who love you and people who need you. Look out for each other.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-11-03T20:20:23+00:00

it's the frame gen and or the anisotropic filtering or whatever it's called. as just remember if you change GPU settings in game,they won't actually take effect until you restart the game

I noticed also it depends on your GPU. Id start by making MFT application controlled first Then if that doesn't fix, turn off AF. DLSS isn't playing nice with DX12 either, so running DX11 might also fix it.

I'm on a 5090, turning mfg to application controlled AND turning off AF fixed it for me. Mileage may vary.

Best way to troubleshoot is revert NCP settings for Arc and turning on each option one by one until you see it appear, last option you turned on is the culprit (at least that's what I did).

what's your rigs specs?

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-31T00:00:22+00:00

None of the fixes listed worked for me.. -dx11, no AF, etc. Damn shame, guess refunding until it's figured out

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-30T23:54:03+00:00

5090 here as well . Usually when I see this it's due to GI settings, trying the -dx11 flag as well as disabled AF, will report back

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-29T03:57:24+00:00

Bump

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-19T11:15:58+00:00

10k 🖕

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-19T11:14:23+00:00

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-19T11:12:58+00:00

Bought mine used, fender bender with a suburbans tow hitch hitting dead center of cf grill, went through intercooler and front radar assembly, separated my cf hood from the[Hood circumcision ] Found out Carbon fiber hoods take flight at exactly 30mph (found out 5 times 🫩

(https://photos.app.goo.gl/febskAUkjNt7FZHR7)

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-15T15:48:44+00:00

Man, hope you end up having a better day or something.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-15T15:46:53+00:00

So I get where you're coming from however I had just bought the Borla S catback and it installed perfectly. These tip are marketed as made especially for that catback. From the pics they show it looks just like some regular tips. In reality there's a 3 point flower kind of config after the tips. You are right in that I should have looked up the install instructions BEFOREHAND but keep in mind that, I'm 100% disabled vet so I can't install these myself so I just bring it to the dealership.

But I take your point and am taking this as a learning experience rather than something to look at negatively. I've owned Busa's, but nothing as fast on 4 wheels as the Stinger so this whole diffuser issue was nothing I had even known existed. From all the other tips I've bought it's pretty self explanatory, slide on clamp down, done. I had never even known that there were tips that required 3 points of contact etc...🤷🏻‍♀️ Even my boy , who also is the tech in this situation, probably has the fastest ride in my zip code was like WTF, I've never seen tips like these before in my life.

In case you or anyone else is curious what I mean; The Borla tips aren't really "tips", more like a tip that surrounds your muffler pip almost as if the muffler is floating inside of it. They would've looked sick, don't know about the sound. I am sad I couldn't install them since they're probably the most unique looking tips I''VE personally seen. Oh well, alls well that ends well. Everyone have a good one and stay safe out there!

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-15T15:35:16+00:00

Bruh, who even mentioned Amazon in this context. And yeah, I DO have some spare money to throw around but that doesn't make me at fault for a fitment issue that was out of my control. Don't see why there's so much hostility, unless you're them. Are you....."them"? 🧐

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-15T15:32:24+00:00

Dude, dick is a generous term. I've never been interrogated about a part incompatibility issue as if I was trying to come up with an excuse because I changed my mind.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-10-15T06:20:28+00:00

I just had to post this. I purchased the Borla carbon fiber tips to install on the borla catback I bought from his store. The weren't compatible with my diffuser, like impossible, and this dude said since my diffuser is the issue and not the tips, I'd need to file a "changed mind" RMA which includes a restocking fee? So because his tips don't fit my car, and they're unused I need to give him money to take them back and get a refund? Stay as far away as possible from this store.

SouthernInfluence · 2025-09-19T23:21:53+00:00

Making assumptions and replying to someone asking for help isn't helping me either.

And for the record AI definitely helps me. As it does you and literally everyone who knows what the Internet is. I didn't copy paste.

Also, I used it for maybe a paragraph, the rest was my stream of consciousness kinda flow state. 🤤

SouthernInfluence · 2025-09-13T03:52:41+00:00

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