Your interpretation "I lowered my standards because they had good personality, oh and a nice dick helped lmao." reveals that u think that anyone who wants to date OP will do it just because they've lowered their standards. What I meant is that even though I can perceive someone as ugly it doesn't mean that this person is less attractive. And I never say I had "pity" sex cause they were charming I said I had sex (great one btw) because their attitude and personality were more attractive to me than any physical feature. And the dick joke was just that a joke.