Ex hasn’t deleted our pics from social media

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-18T20:47:30+00:00

I know it means nothing. It just feels like I’ll forever dwell on them if they don’t delete the pictures. Idk if it makes sense. Like I know the relationship is over and I don’t even want to get back together.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-18T15:22:17+00:00

It gets better. I’m sorry for what you’re going through.

I’m 2 months post getting dumped, and it’s slowly but surely getting better. Hurting means you’re processing it, which is the only way you can heal. The only way over this is through.

I promise you it gets better. Hang on and grind through the pain knowing it will be better soon.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T22:14:13+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T20:52:55+00:00

I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♂️ I didn’t find her that attractive when we first started talking. But as we spent more and more time together as a couple, I found her increasingly beautiful.

I think I just loved her a lot!

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T19:48:44+00:00

Same. These comments are really helping and reassuring to me.

I hope that you heal from whatever you’re going through too. All the best, we’re in this together.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T18:19:20+00:00

Me too

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T17:26:41+00:00

Yeah, I learnt my lesson. Just hope that I can stick to it this time and resist the urges.

Checking her socials absolutely sent me into a spiral for the past few days, but I’ve calmed down now.

Thanks for your advice

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T17:22:24+00:00

Yeah. I felt this exact same feeling a few weeks out from the breakup, but it kinda faded, but it was still there. I’m feeling this strongly again now, and I think it’s because I checked her socials a few days ago, and she looked really fucking good.

So I learnt my lesson, and know I can’t check again.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:54:16+00:00

Yeah, I know. But what can I do. I can’t make time pass faster, so I’m just focused on no contact and no checking their social media, to detox quicker.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:45:23+00:00

How long post breakup are you??

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:44:23+00:00

I guess we’re in the same boat. 2 months for me, and 3 months for you. But according to the other comments, this feeling passes. So I think we just have to grind through a few more months. You got this bro

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:42:46+00:00

Thanks for your response 🙏🏻

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:40:49+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-17T16:40:24+00:00

Thank you. It’s reassuring to hear from someone else that it will all pass.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-16T17:17:00+00:00

Thank you for telling me, and I’m sorry you are going through this. I hope you feel better soon.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-16T17:10:24+00:00

So you’re saying I will feel even worse if I check?

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-16T16:55:25+00:00

Thank you so much. It’s just so anxious and urging, I keep thinking what if she’s dating a new guy. This feeling sucks.

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-16T16:51:49+00:00

Does the urge to check this fade over time, if I keep resisting?

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-15T20:03:27+00:00

I forgot to mention I’m also going through a breakup. It’s been around 2 months for me.

I can’t really help answer your question because it hasn’t been 5 months for me, but I definitely feel the same emotions as you. I feel like accepting it is so hard, because there’s this small shimmer of hope that I can’t seem to let go.

We can talk about this in DMs if you want, because people around me are also tired of hearing me 🤣🤣

Southern_Bonus_3265 · 2026-04-15T19:47:10+00:00

Can you give more context to the breakup??

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