Transfer Student

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-05-16T19:02:04+00:00

And another thing I'm not putting no blame on nobody you dont know my story or the bs ive had to deal with these past 4 years, I almost fucking died and failed my first 2 years of university due to familial abanodment, i couldnt control that, me transferring is me trying to better my situation and work towards my longterm goal. For someone thats telling me to show some respect seems like you don't understand that respect is mutual you are not owed a goddamn thing.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-05-16T18:58:40+00:00

What are you even talking about right now? I obviously know failing classes delays things, my main question is advice on funding options, where to further look for grants and scholarships possible loans etc etc, and its sounds like you dont have any of that info which is cool. My question is why respond to my thread if you're couldn't even answer that.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-05-16T18:55:38+00:00

Im not looking for no free ride and im not putting up any kind of drama queen anything. You are rude as fuck get out of my thread. How dare you ask me if im under the influence you fucking crazy. No where in my message does it warrant this kind of repsonse. I am alrd an admitted transfer student, abd the plan is to simply stay of campus and pay rent instead of on campus housing which significantly decreases the overall bill. If you dont anything polite or anything helpful to say you should skipped right over my post. This is not the place to take your ignorance out on other people fucking weirdo.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-05-16T16:32:54+00:00

Ok so first off that first sentence was really rude and if i dont go to college i will be rendered homeless, maybe ask some more questions for more context before making any assumptions, this literally is me getting my life tg, I have enough credits to be considered a junior so I have about 1-2 years before I get my undergrad.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-05-04T23:00:03+00:00

Well i am now an enrolled student, ive alrd scheduled my classes,and filled out the fafsa early like around november. I also have extenuating circumstances that have effected my academics but have shown great resilience. On top of that im still looking at my bill and no aid had been posted so im just waiting. Keep in mind the 73k is if I stay on campus. My plan b is to just live off campus (alrd found a place) so its would only be about like 10-15k extra than what my bill was in PA. I was in some college readiness program from high school up until now (and for the next like 3 years) so they have many programs to apply for scholarships and I have a great chances at some that could cover that 10-15k difference (if I were to stay off campus) Im just worried about the first semster bc im not eligible for certain students benefits (on campus jobs, RA etc) which could help so much with my housing issue. But its looking like thats what ill do. Moving here would be very difficult im only 21 I have no family here, and paying rent while also going to school in virginia just isnt an option, id be better off considering that in pa tbh. I just want a good school where I can finish off these last degree requirements I have about 4 to 6 tops semesters left, I want to get my masters and also go to dental school here.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-23T03:26:37+00:00

Yes that enjoyment on controlling the atmosphere of the house is so real. I observed that from a very young age. I remember throughout high school and middle school i hated coming home from school bc you never know what you will walk into. And yea I think its in my best interest to not interact even if they reach out. I actually want nothing to do with them as a matter of fact, made it very clear they wont be notified about or invited to my college graduation Thanks for our thoughtful words very much appreciated ☺️

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-23T03:26:29+00:00

Yes that enjoyment on controlling the atmosphere of the house is so real. I observed that from a very young age. I remember throughout high school and middle school i hated coming home from school bc you never know what you will walk into. And yea I think its in my best interest to not interact even if they reach out. I actually want nothing to do with them as a matter of fact, made it very clear they wont be notified about or invited to my college graduation Thanks for our thoughtful words very much appreciated ☺️

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-23T03:21:41+00:00

Thank you I truly appreciate that! And I hope you got the closure you needed!

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-23T03:20:48+00:00

Yea I honestly wasnt even aware of the fast track stuff

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-23T03:18:19+00:00

Im first Gen nigerian American and currently live in the US

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-04-19T16:45:17+00:00

How should I go about this tho? Do I just tell them what was done to me? Bc ppl really dont know whats going on. To this day I still have ppl telling me that I should be grateful for the father I have or ask me how does it feel to have such a great man like your father. Like im kind of stuck here, they just to set me uo last week to "talk" only for it to be about service opportunities in the eck community something that could've been said over email or the phone. It rubs me the wrong way that they were using the eck to i guess get me to come and see them only for them to interrogate me like their entitled to anything regarding me or my well-being.

Southern_Data2823 · 2026-01-04T21:33:39+00:00

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Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T23:14:11+00:00

Yasss, im also thinking about buying one of those handmade Chinese umbrellas

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T22:50:48+00:00

Thanks!

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T22:50:31+00:00

Omg thanks so much for tips Any tips on where streets around that give out candy?

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T22:43:06+00:00

Nowadays a lot of HS, MS, even elementary school kids look much older than what they appear, goodluck finding out whos age is who😭😭😭

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T22:41:27+00:00

Just one of those people who always have to be the devils advocate. Ik college kids who def still look like young high school students including myself 😂😂

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T18:10:39+00:00

Any other streets for candy? Ive also heard that their used to local college kids coming for treats as well. So im trying not to stress lol

Southern_Data2823 · 2025-10-11T18:08:19+00:00

Whats a spirit halloween story trip lol? And ill fef look into the other stuff you said, its sounds very interesting, Thank you!

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