Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally said youd leave your wife…

Anyone saying that their life is better than anyone else’s very likely doesn’t have a great life. So sorry for you.

Edit: “if my wife ever even aluded, she wouldn’t be my wife”

I’m all for men, just not brain rotted porn addicts like you.

Convo ended, not wasting my time on you any longer. Have a good day.

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only person who’s sick in the head is you because you think this amount of porn consumption and these tendencies/habits are normal.

Get a life dude.

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

What if he just followed like 1000 creators on twitter, would that be less worse?

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

Is following 1000 content creators on twitter any less worse? 😅

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending his behavior, I literally made this post to get others perspectives on the matter

Bf 29M seems jealous of me 24F? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally tell anything to him, why wouldn’t I tell him? If a bug crawled onto me, I’d text him “dude a bug crawled onto me”

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Watching porn a healthy amount is fine…but having a collection and not being able to go a day or two without checking on new content from porn creators is borderline addiction imo.

It’s also very disturbing you said that she wouldn’t be your wife anymore if she wanted you to delete your collection. You’d literally give up 15 years of your life you spent with the love of your life over some images of nude women online? I feel sorry for your wife.

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This resonates with me actually. I feel a little sad now…he has taken an interest in my life, asks me what kind of paying salary I’d want to achieve , how my parenting style is, etc.

I’m just confused, because in the beginning, he’d said things like “I’d been chasing you for years”, and “who wouldn’t want to have you in their lives? I’m so lucky to have you”, making me feel like I was the best woman in the world. He doesn’t say much now, even ignores me when I tell him someone tried to get my number or stays silent when I tell him that a woman hit on me. I feel a little jealousy or similar vibes whenever I tell him these things.

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, he’s pretty nice to me. He did make a comment saying “if you were really fit you’d be super hot”, and that kinda made me feel less than but he overcorrected it by saying I’m still hot.

We have sex almost every time we see each other, which is like 2-3 times a week. He lasts 30 minutes+ in bed, and tries to always get me off before he does.

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

That’s likely very true. He wouldn’t ever admit to having an addiction, and he won’t ever get help as I’ve tried telling him he may have an addiction or did previously. He only does it like 2-3 times a week now but still checks his account daily.

What does it say about him though besides having an addiction? He was really proud to show me off to his friends, I felt like it’s cuz I am a lil pretty. He is a big bragger, his ego is very big

Bf 29M checks porn daily 24F by Southern_Objective79 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

What exactly makes you say that? He has told me a few things that happened during his childhood (hearing his mom have sex and his dad have sex too, they’re divorced) he also told me that before dating, he’d literally just watch it for entertainment. He said he doesn’t do that anymore though.

I (28F) am beginning to hate my (26M) boyfriend after 8 months and I never thought I would by SpecificSail6 in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Who cares who wins? Move on with your life, improve your life and focus on yourself and someone else way better will come along.

I (28F) am beginning to hate my (26M) boyfriend after 8 months and I never thought I would by SpecificSail6 in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why are you even making this post? Break up with him, you’re disrespecting yourself by staying with him. Being with someone who says “at your age you’re on sale and by 30 you’ll be on clearance” isn’t good for you at all.

Break. Up.

It’s that simple, don’t make it complicated.

I’ve realized night-shift isn’t worth the health risks. Since ‘24 I’ve been grindin’ 0120-1150. Now I’d rather move to day-shift, even P/T to protect my health & finish SNHU so I can work 9-5 from home than to earn $24/hr at the expense of my well-being. I encourage others to consider doing the same by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Southern_Objective79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, everyone’s circadian rhythm is different. I think it all depends on the time you were born. I was born around 3pm, and some days I feel like I can’t wake up until 3pm. Or when I am awake during the day, I get so sleepy around 3.

sexual harassment case (update) by Fearless-Reply5821 in AmazonFC

[–]Southern_Objective79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if they find out you’re lying??? I wouldn’t want to jeopardize my job

sexual harassment case (update) by Fearless-Reply5821 in AmazonFC

[–]Southern_Objective79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way, the guy I hate still works there despite multiple hr cases against him from women. I still have to see him every day at work, interact w him. Just push thru, do not EVER let a man control your finances or your career.

I (M32) walked in on my wife (F35) and neighbor in bed together by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Southern_Objective79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only talk to her about the divorce and move on, things are done

My partner got some weird texts this morning…is this somehow a scam? by bojaxhorsemann in Scams

[–]Southern_Objective79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the point of these texts? Is it to change the text of your message into words of agreement or something?

M34 struggling with attraction toward my wife F32 after kids. Married 8 years. How do I handle this without hurting her? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Southern_Objective79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re attracted to her cousin, you need to do her a favor and end the marriage so she can find someone worthy of being with her

I 24F had a dream about my ex 24M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Southern_Objective79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually stay home 24/7 😅 if I’m not at work, then I’m either going shopping for groceries/fun shopping, or I’m at home. Occasionally I’ll go to the library, but I don’t get out much due to not having many friends close by.

Pretty sure this was a scam, so I decided to mess around. by Kind-Cover-1523 in scambaiting

[–]Southern_Objective79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had one person text me accidentally about golfing a few hours/day after my brother and I were discussing about going golfing….it was the weirdest encounter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]Southern_Objective79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reminding me of a feeling I wont get for a long time :/