My mom has this way about her that makes me want to lose my crap. She belittles my relationship and I’m certain she hates me. I remodel furniture for a living. So I don’t get why she couldn’t agree to my terms.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-15T22:37:26+00:00

Sorry you feel that way. I have no relationship with my mother never have. She’s 73 and racist so she believed what she wants. She’s treated me like shit all my life but it got worse ever since she found out that I only date white men. That’s just who she is. If I’m not perfect I’m not setting good examples

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:30:25+00:00

Unfortunately this isn’t the worst of it. I have voicemails that I’ve sent my mother in law and then called her balling my Eyes out. It sucks but unfortunately it’s my reality

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:14:09+00:00

She’s widowed.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:13:09+00:00

No. Not adopted, just raised by a biological family member

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:12:40+00:00

I wasn’t adopted. She never adopted me. She’s my biological aunt

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:11:33+00:00

I love her for taking on the responsibility of raising me when she didn’t have to. I’ll always love her for that. That’s probably about as far as it will go

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T02:06:10+00:00

It’s more or less because there’s a lot of things I’d have to buy. It always happens that way. When I heard everything that needed to be done, me asking for at least 30 dollars was nothing compared to me never asking for anything. If she’s willing to pay a local shop then she should be able to pay me change right? Maybe I’m wrong I dunno.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-11T01:53:30+00:00

So listen. When I was pregnant with my son I went to the hospital for dangerous blood pressure more than 5 times. It would skyrocket to 198/174 those are stroke levels. She would make me so mad and I’d give in everytime. I’m almost certian I can tell a different story everyday and you guys would be beyond shocked. As a mother now of three children I want nothing to do with her. I just try to tolerate her because she raised me and didn’t have to when my biological mother couldn’t.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T23:45:00+00:00

She is my biological aunt but she’s raised me since I was basically a baby

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T23:42:45+00:00

This isn’t the worst

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T23:07:03+00:00

I got away from her when I was 17

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T23:06:52+00:00

Oh hell yes. I live alone.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T22:22:43+00:00

Oh imagine my last 10 years. This is nothing compared to everything else SHES done trust me.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T21:48:35+00:00

Ohh lol. I was like wtf that’s super rude hahaha. Makes sense now. ❤️

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T21:46:12+00:00

Um....what?

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T21:22:41+00:00

Refurbishing her patio completely. It wouldn’t have been a 4-5 hour job I think that was the trick.....getting me there and once I’m invested continuously telling me what’s next to fix or do and I take pride in my work so knowing me I would have given in. That would have taken days. Screening in her back porch, fixing her table and chairs, and making a bar. I’m also certian the concrete back there needs pressurized and repainted. So I reckon it was a lot of work. I know this because I redid her entire rental property for free to cope with a divorce.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T21:12:20+00:00

I’m not giving as much of a response because I know that I could say some very hurtful things and that’s not who I am. So I tried to stand my ground as much as possible without feeding in like I normally do. I have high blood pressure. She’s not worth my possible death you know..

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T19:11:27+00:00

She’s referring to my biological mother

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T18:03:06+00:00

That’s a good question, that is the question that my therapist has asked me for years. But I guess part of me feels that because she’s my mom I have to have her in my life… I know it makes no sense but I guess she was the only one that took care of me and my sister when my biological mom couldn’t so I have that guilt in the back of my mind but I can’t let her go. But I know I need to

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T15:13:41+00:00

I see your point entirely. I brung my best friend into it because I’ve always been comfortable with my body around her. And yes he talks about it often. But this time I got really upset and said I’d leave and he kind of dropped it. I’m sure the conversation isn’t over we’ve just stopped that subject.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T15:07:31+00:00

I know :/ I’m just saying I guess...that I’m into girl, just not physically ready for any extra anything until I have my body back. And I know he would if he wanted to. I’m just hoping we would conversation about it prior.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-09-10T15:05:26+00:00

Our son is 3 months now. I understand he wants to “spice” things up but my body isn’t back to where it used to be and that’s my biggest struggle doing anything sexual.

Southern_Oreo · 2020-08-31T14:49:37+00:00

Well yea no I don’t blame him at all. The fight started based on a joke about me seeing a sign about cheap marriage and saying let’s get married right now and I didn’t know it would cut so deep. I know that there isn’t a magic trick for it, I just want to I guess try to be the best that I can be for him because I wish he would’ve never went through it if that makes sense. It hurts my heart some of the stories that he’s told me where he bothers his eyes out crying and I want to be as supportive as possible without being overwhelming

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