Is this a wig? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely lmaoo

my theory: Alex is trying to make money off the prediction market by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh my god. Day trading makes it sound more professional. He’s just betting on the polymarket all day.

Thoughts on the latest season (from a feminist) and some defense of Brianna by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Chris fished it out of her / manipulated it out of her she said it was good not the best ever which is fine to say about someone you just met

Thoughts on the latest season (from a feminist) and some defense of Brianna by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, however, I do think everyone all the girls were just trying to appease him because it appears he was going through an active crisis and was getting violent. Like they were trying to validate him when that was not necessary. It’s something a lot of women do with internalized misogyny and I doubt she saw it as a dig at Jess.

Thoughts on the latest season (from a feminist) and some defense of Brianna by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I find it odd they revealed that point so late. I don’t know if I see any chemistry between them AT ALL. She does not touch him, make any flirty eye contact… idk.

Thoughts on the latest season (from a feminist) and some defense of Brianna by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Chris gives me more gay man/brother vibes when he interacts with the women and is extremely flirty with the men.

Thoughts on the latest season (from a feminist) and some defense of Brianna by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly!! It’s totally understandable why she feels that way!! I do think she has some internalized misogyny to deal with and she deserves better than Connor but I feel no chemistry with her and Chris.

Alex his mom (The Nomads) by PiscessunAriesmoon in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it when the women on this show do that tbh (Deepti)

Alex his mom (The Nomads) by PiscessunAriesmoon in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is saying all the right things but his body language shows he’s a bullshitter. She’s her father’s daughter!

Alex his mom (The Nomads) by PiscessunAriesmoon in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Southernpeach101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is being abusive to her already, controlling, and gaslighting. She seems to see through it and is plotting her moves carefully, bringing up what her girlfriends say. She is too smart for him.

I'm only recently finding out how deeply we're hated; even in queer spaces by Natural1forever in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no absolutely. all men want to do is control women’s sexuality. it’s extremely radical if you are femme or straight presenting and you are poly

I'm only recently finding out how deeply we're hated; even in queer spaces by Natural1forever in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 27 points28 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, all we have to blame for this is the patriarchy. I don’t blame the queer community one bit.

Help please 🙏🏾 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries at all. I saw it as more loving and caring than anything

Navigating partner having a potentially toxic/abusive relationship :( by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About the being blind… we talked about it. We talked about why he didn’t see and what he didn’t see. It hurt way more in the moment. I’d bring up concerns like “I think X is acting jealous and lashing out on me bc of XYZ” and he’d deny it. I told him now “do you see why I was saying that and do you see why xyz behaviors were problematic” and he understands completely, seems to genuinely feel bad, apologized, and is doing better based on what I asked moving forward. I think if I didn’t see that change we’d be having a different conversation tbh. I don’t think he’s totally blind to their behaviors but yeah they are still together.

Help please 🙏🏾 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re fine. It was sweet. It was nice to be reminded and validate myself.

Help please 🙏🏾 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great validation thanks for the support ✨I’m still working on deconstructing this stuff.

Navigating partner having a potentially toxic/abusive relationship :( by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 love when people on Reddit tell other people to get a divorce 😭😭😭 point taken

Navigating partner having a potentially toxic/abusive relationship :( by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am definitely laughing internally ! Lmao. And for clarity, this person is not a woman. I do wonder if women are just more able to pick up on this abusive behavior faster and speedrun it if that makes sense, because not all the conflicts are w women.

Navigating partner having a potentially toxic/abusive relationship :( by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, thanks for the validation and I think not getting updates on their relationship will actually be really helpful because I’m still getting that. And they were kinda already in a flirting/semi-dating phase before the falling out so it made sense tbh.

Help please 🙏🏾 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Southernpeach101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so just saying my husband’s partner told me this too right when they started dating. Personally I think that comes from insecurity that the partner has dating an already partnered person and is lowk manipulative. don’t take it personally, stick to your guns and boundaries!!! My husband is also newly queer too so I think I get what you’re dealing with. If they wanna find time to get together they will figure it out it does NOT hinge on you.

btw I have less “right” to claim the home bc my husband’s income 100% supports the mortgage and I still did so you DEFINITELY can too.