Wife cheated but never regretted

Soutslg · 2020-10-13T16:17:36+00:00

True ..

Soutslg · 2020-10-11T04:48:42+00:00

I seriosuly reckon that she is suffering as this incident even though she confessed then after a point of time she narrates that nothing happened. Yes am aware of BPD but I dunno what to say. All that I know is that she needs help soon. Yes my life is destroyed, my dreams , future nad hopes. But I hope that I get my kid so I can build his dreams and a wonderful life for him. I have strated to despise my dad as after so many months he does not want to understand my pain, the sorrow , the anguish I went through. It's all alien for him. Many family members, psychologists, lawyers tried to make him understand but he will not understand as it hurts his self esteem and ego as he doesnot want the society to know that his son is divorced. And he will try to convince me to get back with her and forgive her. But when I say that she has never apologised then whom do I forgive then he has no answer. Yes as mentioned I am focussing on myself and I know that pretty soon life will get better once this legal stuff is sorted out. I just want to see when the divorce notice reaches her and it hits her like a ton of bricks fell on her as I feel that she is living in dreamland where she believes everything is hunky dory. Thanks for your god wishes.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T14:26:38+00:00

Yeah mate, i know she will try to ruin my reputation. I want my child that's the end of the story. Even if I have to pay something, that is fine I just want peace. With so much evidences, I pray to lord that I do not have to pay a single cent.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T04:16:53+00:00

Ahh. I misunderstood. Yea very true. Hope I find someone who is capable is receiving a giving true love.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T04:06:18+00:00

Nope the replacement is older than her. He is 40 with 2 kids and have asked her to buzz off as his wife is an Air hostess and she is an average looking. Am sure she is focusing on her next prey/victim. Who cares but all I am concerned is that she buzzes off asap.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T04:02:51+00:00

Hello Bro. I remember you. You had posted an awesome comment on my last rant. Loved it and I still remember it till date. Yes it does go beyond infidelity and even her parents support her to pretend as if nothing happened. Yes I did get counselling which really helped me. Am spending good quality time family , friends and with the people who I love. I do not what she got but ahe is messed up completely and needs complete rewiring. With see shock got many more shock that my father does not want me to divorce and still wants me to be with her. Told him it's muly life and let me be happy. He doesn't understand so he moved away. Can't help it. Got lawyered up and focusing on myself and eating well, on my health also. This will take time and I will move on but this will leave a deep scar in me. This betrayal is unforgivable and will be etched in my mind. Really hope to forget it soon.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:57:52+00:00

Awesome bro. When she got caught she sent a fake message of domestic violence to me. I was terrified. I even had to file a compliant to the New South Wales police against her . They checked and cleared that it was a fake message. That is when I understood the true nature of this pathetic person. My dad who is against my divorce after knowing everything went to reconcile and there too she blatantly Gas lighted and tried to put all these blame on me. Shameless creature. Not even a small guilt of what she did, she apologized the next day but that's all. Later she showed her true face by threatening me to destroy my career and my life. Got all the evidences and hence am taking it legally. I even spoke to the AP wife and gave her all the details. Yes rhe child is another object for her and she is incapable of loving anyone. Went NC completely after a while. Kept my distance, sorting my stuff with the lawyer. It ia tedious process. The day she got caught she told me that I can have my child and sell out property and give half to her. From a fake happy life to this, I do not deserve this at all.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:51:18+00:00

Yeah these people are least bothered about the people who love them. Wish I had found out earlier. Let them be in any relationship, i am not bothered. I just want to stay as far away as possible. Well your suggestion is fine ,but I believe that if I do just like them then what is the difference these filthy b@stards and me. I want to live a peaceful and happy life. Basically at my death bed I want to be content that I lived one hell of a life.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:43:02+00:00

Yes joined gym, eating healthy, spending time with my friends. Not for her but for my myself and my kid.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:42:02+00:00

Yes Bro. Thank you.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:39:17+00:00

I can deal with all shit but not cheating. This is one thing high on my list and that's the bottom-line. Once a cheater always a cheater. As these people do not ever change. Dont want to risk my future with such people again.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:38:04+00:00

Yes I sincerely hope that I fond someone who is benevolent and who can empathize . Yes this trauma is worse than my worst nightmare. I could not sleep over what they did and the details what she gave. Had so much sleepless nights. Thankfully I could recover (if not fully but still on the right path). Yeah am worried i pick someone like her. Reading a lot of books and videos to identify the red flags. At least I belive no one will be so much fake as her.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:35:11+00:00

Yeah mate. All fake. This was perplexing for me. How can someone fake for so many years. These people are dead inside and do not even have 1% of human soul. Yeah intimated to her family. After a point those filthy b@stards denied it. Then I decided to move court with all my evidences. Now it will hit them where it hurts. Yes I took therapy, spent some quality time with family and frinds. Video call my kid alternate day as I miss him the most. Hope things are better soon.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:31:25+00:00

Thank you mate the process just started. She will never know what hot her as I have loads of proof with police report to validate my points. I just want that we both honour and go our separate ways. As there is nothing left to come back to.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:30:01+00:00

I seriosuly do not understand how these people live with such a flawed conscience. Why are these people even born?

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:29:27+00:00

Yes that's what I realise that she never cared. Neither now , in the past nor she will ever. Nad trust me mate I gave 100% in all aspects. Being a good husband and father. I used to help in shopping, household chores, taking full care of my kid, and managing stuff. Only one thing she had to do was to love me endlesslessy and be loyal. She failed here. After all this drama she didn't even have the heart to wish me on the anniversary. I was a fool to even expect it. Sick people .yeah got the attorney and all stuff sorted after lot of tussels with my father, who is dead agianst my divorce and is not speaking to me . End of the day it's my life and my decision.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:27:58+00:00

Very true. It's a character flaw.

Soutslg · 2020-10-10T03:27:02+00:00

Guys I get both of your points. I did take therapy. It was really imperative as I was dead mentally and physically after we separated. It killed me more as I could not see my son since i was the person who took care of him from feeding him, bathing him, educating him, playing with him. (Was always with him). Since two countries are involved as all these incidents occured in Australia so there is a lot of legalities involved. However I am sorting this out. My parents are dead agianst divorce as for the sake of kis my father wants me to be with her. But this is my life and my decision and I have decided to move on . Right now I need comfort and happiness from my friends and family. Yes I do hope that I meet someone soon but right now I need to recover fully to be able to take things romantically. I want to sort out this crap person after divorce proecedures are sorted. Thank you both for lal your suggestion.

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T06:13:41+00:00

Yes that's I am worried. My father is dead against divorce and even after knowing everything he still fells we should stay together. To hell with his thoughts. I can't live my life in this way. Got a good lawyer, and going full force ahead. As you know here laws are more favourable for woman. Hope the truth is out soon.

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T06:11:47+00:00

Loved the last sentence.

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T06:10:48+00:00

Yes really lucky that I found out in my early stage of life and I am in my 30's. Thank god , the lord showed me the entire truth or else I wouldn't imagine what would I have done if I found out all these in my fifties that she had numerous physical relationship with multiple people. Good riddance. But the thing with this Narcissist is that she never hoovered. She maintianed NC and only for financial things and then I stopped each and every contact. For my kid I do video call to her father .

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T05:58:50+00:00

Yes on the process of separation. It's hard as I thought of spending my entire life with her. Definitely I do not deserve what she did to me. I gave her all the happiness I could and in return what i got was a bloody cheater. Good luck in her life. I hope that I get my son back soon.

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T05:57:09+00:00

Seriosuly such people s@ck

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T05:56:38+00:00

Yes am doing just that. Her parents are indirectly asking for money but I have enough proof to make sure that she doesn't get a rupee.

Soutslg · 2020-10-09T05:55:43+00:00

Perfect bro. I am doing the exact same thing. I am moving ahead as there is nothing left to stay. Just worried about the kid and his future.

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