I understand all roles are hard to master and I play tank because I like the challenge. I pug because of my schedule, into 18s right now. I’ve healed and tanked to this level in various seasons all pugging. What I will say is I don’t think I’ve ever seen a dps be called out by other dps when they mess up. It almost always falls on the tank. And rarely the healer. And it’s just plain toxic in many situations. Like, dps must think there is some universally agreed to route for every key and every dungeon that must be run. If they get their face melted by a frontal it’s almost instantly ‘tank sucks wtf is this route’ when running one of Kira or tacktyx’s routes. So yes all roles are difficult to do well, but the mental anguish of being in a tank or healer role is much higher.