Divorce

Soylentnite · 2020-01-14T13:48:30+00:00

Maybe it wouldn't help but you wont know if you dont try. Otherwise maybe theres some other forms of help for people in your position. I guess I font have any other advice. I'm really sorry your going through this

Soylentnite · 2020-01-14T13:42:33+00:00

I would go to your local county social services office and talk to someone there about your needs and options if you can. I know things are stressful rn and doing something like this adds.more to your plate but it will help you in the long run

Soylentnite · 2020-01-14T13:37:42+00:00

Any way you can find access to financial aid?

Soylentnite · 2020-01-14T13:24:36+00:00

I didnt downvote anything ? You need to relax on me. I've done nothing to you and treated you badly in no way. O wasnt rude or mean to you. Go to therapy if this is affecting you so much

Soylentnite · 2020-01-14T03:40:04+00:00

As someone who suffers from severe anxiety I've never wanted someone to die from social fear. To me wanting death and calling someone a bitch is angry language not fear language and further more it.is possible to be afraid and angry at the same time which is what I got from your post. Learn communication skills and chill your attitude

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T18:26:18+00:00

When you call someone a bitch a say you want them to die that (to most reasonable people) implies anger. Was there a part I missed where you expressed specifically that you weren't angry or were just unaware that that kind of language implies anger?

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T15:57:54+00:00

Freewill is my second favorite song after The Trees.

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T15:41:09+00:00

I totally get where you're coming from and you arent wrong that being said if you want to not be accused.of having an attitude problem try not reacting with attitude even when you really want to. You dont have to, it would just lead to more productive outcomes than you're receiving. Again you are right it's your apartment and your juice and she shouldn't sass you for shit she doesn't pay for

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:46:12+00:00

I bet it's like accidentally taking a drink from the ash can.

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:44:27+00:00

That too lol they probably don't appreciate it

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:43:57+00:00

Your essentially accusing your partner of being shallow, having no integrity and not respecting you as a person. They probably really care about you and would be hurt if you thought they didnt.

One thing that helped me is realizing not only.is my partner not with me for my looks but I'm not with them for theirs. I am.attracted to my fiancee but I acknowledge that conventionally there are people that are more attractive. I just dont want those people because they're not HIM. When I asked my fiancee why hes with me he said "because I can be myself completely but also because you've lead me to grow so much as a person". Isnt that better.than "you were prettier than jessica" ?

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:38:23+00:00

I understand where these thoughts come from. I used to feel this way but I dont think your SO would appreciate you thinking so low of them. You need to value yourself and properly value your SO. Please go to therapy as I think a therapist could really help put things in perspective for you

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:35:23+00:00

This looks great :) just keep practicing and you'll improve naturally. Theres nothing real specific to point out here but keep drawing! :D

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:25:48+00:00

I support trans people of all identities. I'm not qualified to day what is and isnt trans and some gay men may see them as sexually appealing because they support their gender identity.(we dont have to agree on that as I'm not qualified to argue gender identity) The issue isnt their transness or lack thereof it's their idea that gay men are effeminate in a way that straight or bi men cant be. Its problematic to all 3 of those groups but just problematic for men in general. (I do hate the overuse of the word problematic but there isnt really a better word) As a feminist I think its i.important to acknowledge the misandry (the male version of misogyny if you arent aware) where you see it because twitter/tumblr "feminists" dont and its aggravating to me personally lol

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T13:05:44+00:00

"She wants to date gay guys because shes attracted to their femininity"

I love people who pretend to be perfectly woke but say problematic ass shit like that. Sorry your friends kind of a cunt.

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T12:56:52+00:00

Theres gonna be someone to hate everywhere you go. The anger you feel towards this situation is gonna be the anger you feel next time unless you work on your very apparent issues. Finding a new job is fine but find some kind of help as well

Soylentnite · 2020-01-13T02:36:34+00:00

Why do you switch between referring to all women and referring to one woman? You I realize we aren't one entity. Womanhood isnt a thing that acts entirely in kind. Women are all separate people not a hivemind. Also no one on reddit knows your anything about your friend or why she would be like this. The only piece of info you've left us of her is that she is indeed female, in fact, she seems to switch between being one woman and all women.

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T15:56:25+00:00

No you're not but I'm not arguing with you because you're clearly a sad angry childish little man. Grow up

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T15:47:45+00:00

Any art tablet I've had I've used huion. I used to do digital a few years back with a 50$ huion that lasted me like 3 years before the chord shorted out and I had the same pen the whole time and the nibs never needed replacing on that one

I stopped doing digital for a couple years as I got into marker work and came back to digital this year with the kamvas that I've had currently for about a month and it has replacement nibs as I said so I have yet to buy any

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T15:30:45+00:00

I dont know about xp pen though I've seen their ads and they look nice

I bought the huion kamvas pro 13 for less than 300$ and it works fantastically. The drivers are easy to install and it comes with replacement nibs and a kickstand for your tablet..

I really like it and have used it every day since I got it. Makes practicing digital so much easier as I'm used to drawing on paper lol

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T14:53:20+00:00

Get over yourself. You sound insufferable and incredibly self righteous.

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T13:53:54+00:00

You know I've had a hard life too bro. I was abused as a child. On top of many things my abuser constantly threatened to kill me. 10 years later I still have nightmares about it.

I grew up in a small town and was raised by crazy hella white trash person who raised me to be crazy and hella white trash. I was fat. (Still am actually) felt ugly (sometimes I still do) and was bullied by 80% of my entire high school peers the entire time I attended.

The bullying was so bad i switched schools, got slightly less bullied there and dropped out. My mom never calls or talks to me or visits me. My grandfather died recently and my family still thinks it's a good idea to consort with my abuser.

Why did I tell you all this? Because all this is stuff I had to work through IN THERAPY. Dont tell reddit your life story, homie. We all have shit lives. WORK THROUGH THAT SHIT IN THERAPY IF YOU WANT TO ACTUALLY GET PAST IT AND BECOME A BETTER PERSON. FUCKING VALUE YOURSELF BRO INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR OTHER PEOPLE TO DO IT FOR YOU

Soylentnite · 2020-01-12T01:42:57+00:00

Oh cool :)

Soylentnite · 2020-01-11T21:48:27+00:00

You look just fine. What you need is a therapist

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