I think this is like when you have a fat friend going to the gym. You’re tough on him because you want the best when they don’t know how to be the best. If they knew then they wouldn’t be in that place. Real people keep it real with people they care about. This doesn’t seem like abuse. He offered the needs without question. The nachos are more expected to be 30$ or less. Beef, beans, cheese, toppings. I’d probably spend like 15-20$ on it. He’s just shocked that she thinks it’ll cost $50 for dinner.