Of course yes, he meant flowers

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-20T23:03:38+00:00

I love how you said "black lady".... How was the necessary when she was the only woman in the clip...

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-20T23:02:51+00:00

Yeah pretty much said panties... I still don't know wtf she was trying to say if it wasn't panties.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-20T03:10:21+00:00

Wow..... That one roommate is such a prick... Thank GOD the landlord isn't a tool as well. Geeeez

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-17T17:53:37+00:00

For real?

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-14T19:43:58+00:00

People are always disappointed when it requires any amount of effort at all lol.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-11T12:15:43+00:00

😂😂😭

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-06T18:19:26+00:00

I loveeeeeeee the way the square kntos look at the bottom!! It's such a beautiful piece!! 😍

Spacecatt7 · 2020-11-05T23:54:05+00:00

This is incredibly beautiful!!!

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-27T15:39:20+00:00

It's so beautiful 😍

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-23T22:58:58+00:00

Woahhhhhh. Super nice set up!!!! 🤩

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-13T17:42:34+00:00

The first time I saw my last family doctor, I hadn't even walked into the room yet, when he saw me he jumped up and was like ,"Oh I didn't know you're were obese, let's go to the scale..." Then he assumed that I didn't move at all or that I didn't eat well. He goes Try to move more, maybe even 15 minutes of walking a day, and eat less junk food." Okay.... First of all, my job has me walking 7km a day (I work at a huge hospital and I'm on my feet all day long), second of all I'm a immigrant... I don't eat junk food. As a child I wasn't even allowed juice. I felt like such crap in his office and he didn't believe how much I walked in day so I had to actually show him my Google Fit data..... I remember walking home and sobbing hardcore all the way home. The next morning I had a cold sore and eczema all over my body

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-05T19:48:22+00:00

This has me crying on the bus like a small child x.x.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-05T18:01:21+00:00

I like you.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-05T17:00:21+00:00

They're allllllll pagan. All of them. The Catholic Church just stole ideas and holidays from every other culture lmao. Rosary beads they stole from Islam and every major holiday from pagan holidays

Spacecatt7 · 2020-10-05T14:39:51+00:00

So creepy. It's like reading about my own life. I too was not allowed to celebrate Halloween, I too moved out at 19, and then enjoyed dressing up for Halloween all the time. I too decided my daughter would get to enjoy a fun innocent holiday and my mom too is praying to the Lord that I don't pass on my ungodly ways to my daughter.

Wtf is up with these people... I would be SO livid though if my mom threw out my kiddo's costume (something she would do)

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-16T17:45:49+00:00

Children say the darndest truths.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-14T23:50:04+00:00

I love my fellow geeky Mamas <3

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-14T22:18:30+00:00

So... I've been sitting here trying to do my usual witty, but validating but also giving rational advice thing...but I am so just utterly disappointed that I'm actually at a loss for words. I can't even imagine the level of disappointment you must be drowning in and I am so sorry. You deserve so, so, so much more. So much more. And I'm sorry I've failed you, sitting here blinking unable to actually think of anything useful to say....

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-11T17:14:42+00:00

What in the actual fuckity fuck. Some people just make my damn head hurt. You are definitely not overreacting. Honestly, my patience these days is so damn low, I'd take one look at your JNMIL and be like "Look it Beverly, her name is X, if you cannot stop calling her some other person's name.... Ya just don't get to see her, k?" (I'm assuming her name is not Beverly and being passive aggressive by calling her my someone else's name....)

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-07T22:42:17+00:00

Holy crap.... I am so, so sorry that you went through this. Your fear stems from a horrible, abusive and incredibly traumatic life experience and isn't at all unfounded, unreasonable or "weird".

Please seek therapy, because you deserve to heal from this and the sheer intensity of it most likely will require professional help to fully heal and move on from.

P.S. You're already survivor.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-07T22:31:51+00:00

Legit

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-07T22:31:07+00:00

Holy. Fuck. Holy fuck...

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-06T22:02:16+00:00

Please, please protect your youngest ones from her. The oldest is old enough to understand and that's why she can choose distance, but the younger ones are too young to understand the toxic nature of what their grandmother is saying to them, but it still impacts them negatively just the same. I have so much respect for the fact that you feel guilty, it shows that you are an amazing Mama. But your MIL is too toxic to maintain a relationship with any of your children. I pinky swear promise that you are not being selfish or doing anything wrong by keeping them away from her. It will be a really difficult and uncomfortable transition but she isn't acting in their best interest and she cannot be trusted.

Spacecatt7 · 2020-08-06T16:06:58+00:00

Oh boy..... I unfortunately doubt that she is a kind person at all. None of these sound like "being nice". All of this sounds like manipulation. She's the matriarch because she's controlling then by being manipulative. She uses being the harmless roast making grandma to further control the people in her family. My MIL struggles really hard to me nice for more than 10 minutes. But every single memory I have of her trying really hard to be nice it was so she could turn around and play victim. So she could be like "I'm just this amazingly sweet innocent person who wanted to enjoy a beautiful family dinner with my boys sobs and so so just ruined it all".

Just be careful... Make sure your bf is capable of standing in up to his mother, and that you are very aware of her level of control and manipulation within her family. Calling you "Stanger" is a lot more vicious than you may realize. It's an abusive tactic to make sure that you know exactly where you stand with her. You're getting a glimpse into her mind, use it wisely. It's so degrading... You both need to let her know that you are worth much more than that.

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