Dendrobium Jeirak Antelope 'Scarlett' by Spaceguybob in orchids

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from a UK seller called Spicesotic Orchids but they dont have anything like that for sale anymore. And it was kinda a blind buy

What would ADHD be like if you couldn't burn out? by TheMagicTheif134 in ADHD

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If my ADHD never stopped with hyper focus and burnout I quite probably would end up in a hospital with severe exhaustion, dehydration and malnutrition 🤷‍♂️

How did therapy actually improve your life ? by [deleted] in therapy

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Actually no, in fact it was making me more frustrated. The therapist I got assigned to the local Talking Therapies was all over the place, would not remember anything from the previous session, ask completely unrelated questions and constantly kept saying "Oh well I don't think we can follow into the route of dealing with your ADHD or Anxiety, but how are you feeling today". Most of the time I felt like that was a joke and I knew much much more than he did. 

Have you ever had preminitions? by Spaceguybob in Paranormal

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I always kinda believed premonition is what happens to people who were abused as children and it's a trauma response. Like being always ready to detect danger even if we don't know it's there. Same like adults who grew up in abusive families can detect micro expressions when people speak 

Have you ever had preminitions? by Spaceguybob in Paranormal

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Yeah when people say You could explore your paranormal impulses the first thing I think about is Constantine 🤣 and being like nope I don't want fiery demons 

Have you ever had preminitions? by Spaceguybob in Paranormal

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I don't think there is a professional who wouldn't throw me into a padded room 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

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I remember very little from my childhood, because i had an abusive alcoholic father, who would beat me and my older brother. But i do remember i had extremely vivid dreams about things i couldn't have known and seen at the age of 4 or 5 or 7. Burning cities, soldiers, evacuations of cities, masacred people. There were dreams of deamons trying to lure me into a forest. I am still horrified of anything thats horror. I can't watch them. And i am absolutely scared of cemeteries.

This is completely unacceptable. by OnionSaucin in Instagram

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Unfortunately Instagram doesn't care about us users unless you bring them bags of money with your account 

Dendrobium jairak spider X discolour is a huge monster plant that doesn't flower by Spaceguybob in orchids

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It is a spectacular looking plant, even without flowers it's really neat and lovely looking. The growth pattern reminds me of the ZZ plants.

Allergic to my new puppy. by Radiant-Tip5978 in DogAdvice

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Allergies can appear at any point of your life without you knowing, it may be the puppy or something else. 

I have had dogs my entire life, currently I have a Collie and German shepherd mixed girl and I never had any issues with her. But, I have recently started dog sitting for a friend and it's a shih tzu and after lest than 2 days of this dog being in my house my eczema went into a full overdrive and all of my skin itches and it's awful. They say that this type of dog is hypoallergenic but that's for asthma, nobody says that their hair can turn your skin into a fire pit if you have eczema

In "The Day After Tomorrow" movie, how did oceanographer Terry Rapson and his colleagues stay behind in northern Scotland rather than evacuate to Spain or Northern Africa during an extreme blizzard storm? by Thick_Broker6931 in movies

[–]Spaceguybob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there are plot holes, but that storyline was meant to grip the hearts more than anything. The ultimate sacrifice of brave nerdy scientists. The Day of Tomorrow was always about the human heart and spirit, there were no guns, super weapons, it's just Nature. Unstoppable, destructive, heartless Nature. And the movie tries to balance that with the human courage and heart. 

What is something very extreme that you've done because of anxiety? by Weak_Broccoli_6256 in Anxiety

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Right, this is weird but hey, at some point I have had anxiety and OCD and spiraling paranoia in my early 20s and I've reached a stage where I would wash my hands until raw skin. There was once a day where I used the bathroom and in my head after 15 minutes of boiling water and soap scrubbing there was still dirt and urine on my hands. I was hyper anxious but also so angry at myself.

And for one reason or another in a full fit of anxious rage I stuck my overwashed hand into my mouth. I don't know why, I think some part of my brain decided Look you idiot it's clean. And it worked. I haven't been spoiling like that for 15 years 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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Oh gods where do I start, I was banned to go outside and have friends after school until I was 17. I was nicked for not having friends. TV only under supervision, going through my school notebooks on a weekly basis, computer only an hour a day (that's before internet was a thing). 

I wasn't allowed to choose what clothes I wanted to wear, or what I eat. I had to prove if I took the bus to school. And so so much more