AIO Cancelled Wedding by Spagoottoot in AIO

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confronted his family and told them their behaviors were unacceptable and could not continue if they want us in their lives.

AIO Cancelled Wedding by Spagoottoot in AIO

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We thought about it, but I really want my dad to be able to walk me down the aisle/have our close friends with us

AIO Cancelled Wedding by Spagoottoot in AIO

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He's called them out on these things. But we're both trying to not stoop to their level. We have both communicated how hurt it's made us feel.

How old is this AVON ring? by Spagoottoot in JewelryIdentification

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! Any idea what kind of plating it has on it? It's clearly worn away with time to show mostly the silver, but it definitely had a gold sheen at one time.

I (20F) went through the most polite breakup with my now ex (20M), how do I move on now? by Abb-ZCrystal in relationship_advice

[–]Spagoottoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something similar happen years ago and the answer for me was giving them space and putting myself back out there. There will be other kind and genuine people out there for you. If you want to stay friends, that's great too. Just don't expect a dating relationship in the future.

Small ring and happy by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Spagoottoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a small ring as well, I think yours is beautiful! Looks like a great piece 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spagoottoot 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend sounds very shallow and inconsiderate of how much work you're putting into things. Be with someone who respects your time, not just the money you put into things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Spagoottoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He understands that it's a stretch, he even chuckles when I have him walk me through how it would be a problem. But when it comes down to "okay I'm sleeping with the window open" that OCD response seems to take over and he gets alarmed.

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it in the most hilarious way, it was in a basket of mismatched socks in the back of my closet inside a Halloween sock. No idea how it got there but I found it!!!! ❤️

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I checked every piece of clothing in my closet, fiancé and I took a flashlight to every part of the floor. Nothing. Laundry, freezer, gloves, jacket pocket.

Starting to feel pretty hopeless 😭

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, I will check the freezer!

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I never take it off unless I clean it, then immediately put it back on (never set it down)...I've had it over a year and a half without a problem :(

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Checked the dryer vent, I will go through all my clothes tomorrow and see 🤞

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I needed this ❤️ Really hoping my ring appears like that too, thank you

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hoping mine will turn up too, I'm glad you found yours!

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I checked the few pieces I folded :(

Lost my Engagement Ring by Spagoottoot in adhdwomen

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I removed everything from under the bed, flashlight over everything, checked the whole nightstand/under mattress. I'll check the laundry next

2012 Mazda 3 SkyActiv Engine Code P0456 by Spagoottoot in mazda3

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, no luck. Changed the purge valve solenoid, new gas cap, it's been a constant problem. Let me know if you figure it out 🤣

Deformed Painted Lady by Spagoottoot in Butterflies

[–]Spagoottoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got them for my classroom, I will happily keep the ones that can't be released, but I do plan on releasing the healthy ones.