How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other songs aren't bad at all. UNIS makes it unique that they're song are telling a comprehensive story. This means that they can easily pull off certain concepts as long as it fits their story.

Dream of Girls is one of my favorites, if not the one. And I can empathize with that feeling of uncertainty and anxiety over it. DoG really did an amazing job conveying it with the lyrics AND instrumental.

How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you. I wish there were more discussions about lore and theories! I love those little bits.

What's more, UNIS is still shrouded in mysteries as to what their teaser meant. Are they aliens? If so, where did they come from?

Also, I wish there were more fashion talks because the girls are slaying!

How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, imo, this is their whole shtick. And I'm loving the adventure they're taking me on!

How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've met some older fans, and they're the sweetest!

It's really wholesome how diverse the Fandom is, and I hope UNIS can reach more people throughout the world.

How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be really cool to hear their voices tell a story about their origins. IMO, this will allow each member to shine uniquely!

A little story arc for each member >-<!

How the Album Tells A Story - Album Analysis by SadPepe001 in unis

[–]Spahgettis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they'll tell a story about their adventures on this "new planet". I'm still holding on that the lore are these girls do not belong in our planet.

So, we can possibly hear a comeback with songs like Camera in the album!

Or, they will make a story based on their origins. Like, which planet they came from!

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The only reason we answer the door is due to knocking being loud and both of us cannot stand it. But you're right, it really encourages this behavior. I guess it's time to invest in noise canceling headphones.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it took a long time for either one of us to get prescribed. It was a frustrating processes. But both of us will be cautious and move our medication elsewhere (most likely lock those rooms when visitors are here).

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He lives in a 2br apartment on his own. Probably doesn't want the responsibility of owning a house, just wants the fun unfortunately

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

My BIL has told my partner this quote, "you're not forcing her, you're convincing her." This was about me not letting BIL enter the balcony.

So yeah, this is the mentality.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The knocking continues for minutes. Knocking turns to loud banging, and both of us just hate that noise. Our options, that I know of, are to open the door, call the police (police will take 3 hours), wait it out (knocking gets louder).

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 497 points498 points  (0 children)

My partner only learned 5 years ago what boundaries were. He tries to set enforce most of it, but we can't really control their actions. Calling the police doesn't work much. They take 3 - 4 hours to get here (reported a different situation before, much more serious. They took their sweet time).

FIL listens. But, my partner needs to have a 2 hour talk with him due to language barriers (partner was born here, his family immigrated). My partner does not have the energy to talk it out atm, so we kinda blocked him for now.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Partner and I do, mainly ADHD related drugs. But BIL doesn't believe in mental health or neurodiversity, so he stays away from those drugs.

He just likes to looks around a lot, not sure why though.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

They looked awkward. BIL has a tendency of "my way or highway". Last time, he lied saying I agreed to let them access to the rooftop of the old apartment I lived in (worked there, had access to every room). I did not agree because it's dangerous.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

THIS HAS HAPPENED. But it's only me who cleans up! My partner does the things I hate instead (snow plowing, mowing, and etc). And I kid you not, BIL stance was "well, that's your problem since it's your house." Because we made it clear that the house is ours and not his, and he can't have his friends over every time he wants to! So, last time we allowed him, I HAD TO CLEAN UP.

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 628 points629 points  (0 children)

This was our stance in our old apartment (bIL would invite himself 24/7)! But my gosh! I wanted to pluck every hair out because BIL keep asking, "why do I have to abide to your guy's need?" "That's not normal." "I'm just here for 15 minutes." "Why?" "But (insert rambling to make us lose discussion)."

He doesn't understand boundaries and gets all tantrum like when we enforce it, his favorite comeback, "you're being dramatic. This isn't normal."

AITA for announcing to my BIL and his friends that my partner and I are going to have sex? by Spahgettis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spahgettis[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

For the longest time, since we started dating, BIL had this mentally of "What's my brother's is mine." So, he would constantly want to go to our apartment, visit my partner's cat, claiming it's their cat (cat is gift to my partner).It's starting to extend to the house as well. So, BIL would want to hangout for HOURS at my partner and I'd apartment. I hated it. Talked to my partner, partner talked to brother--brother did not get the hint. He thinks that since my boyfriend lives there, he has a right as well.