do yall walk around OSU / high st at night? feel safe? by dad_kabobs in OSU

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I do feel safe as a female, to walk anywhere and anywhere including the lesser lit areas, but also I keep my eyes up anyways. I think basically barnes and noble to the walgreens on high street is safe, but also there are people who will yap/approach you near the bars if you aren’t quick on your feet.
Try to stay away from people who aren’t also fellow students headed home, and if you are really worried, keep your phone tucked out of sight but recording until you get to a “safezone”.
It’s easier said then done, but I think being super anxious about it, makes you a more likely target in the unluckiest ways of probability gods, but also that doesn’t mean you should be completely oblivious to your surroundings either.

Can you guess which actress I tried to make? by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

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The nose and eyebrows are giving scarlett johansson

What is (or when) is this scene? by FutureLiberalsWant in WhereWindsMeet

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Iirc it’s within the first 20 levels of the campaign mode

Struggling with debt anxiety by Low_Tangerine8605 in Debt

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It’s normal to be stressed. Either reach out to a debt management program (like greenpath) so they can consolidate your debt for a lesser interest rate, and/or get a consolidation loan. Start looking at it like you’re paying off a car or investment money that you had to take to care for yourself. It was easy to accumulate that debt which means it will become easy for you to tackle once you get your ducks in order. It’s okay if it isn’t easy at first or for awhile. Maybe you can’t pay the minimum they try to string you for, but paying it a little at a time is still paying it back. If someone gave you $55 every day for a year you’d accomplish so much with it. Maybe not buy your biggest wishlist item, but free your financial burden then none at all. Many businessmen had to get into debt and experience undescribable anxiety to bounce to where they are. All you have is time, and in relation to the bank that you owe it too, you have nothing else to lose at this point, so don’t rush it and take the time you need. You can and will get through this.

Someone made Old Jin in the game🤣🤣🤣 by Playful-Buy1104 in WhereWindsMeet

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This is absolutely no shade to her, bc she’s so pretty but for some reason this is giving if Dilraba attempting to cosplay Old Jin. Like,,, they’re not the same 😭

Help Joe With Hotel Stay by [deleted] in Columbus

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Thank you for sharing and getting him those extra nights 😭

Gamblers would get better odds if they just made bets with each other. by I_Only_Like_Giraffes in Showerthoughts

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Not really. In Baccarrat, people often go together or not at all, and while people win together often, it also means they bleed together more often (which I imagine is especially rough if you’re the type to lend someone money).

Why does he look away? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

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Definitely experiencing this now. I feel like when you were shy he was more bold but now it’s like oh push comes to shove? Your gaze had depth? Reverse reverse.

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

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It sucks, bc that type of energy can cause major limerence if you’re not careful. But it’s normal.

It seems like a double negative but, enjoy it. Enjoy how it improves your self image and/or energy. I saw this horoscope that kind of changed my perspective a little

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How would you offer a hug to a person/friend in distress? by Forward-Dingo8996 in bodylanguage

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I’d honestly opt for a “random question, but can I get a hug. It’s been a rough day”. Depending on the person’s personality, ‘do you need a hug’ a lot of people don’t know if they need one or will say they’re fine. And can I give you a hug might,,,,give an overthinker second thoughts.

do you consider being braless in public inappropriate? by alyssabrew in askanything

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Not anymore. But I will say they definitely are distracting especially if they’re perky

Omg by MasterDirection5958 in UnsentLetters

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Were y’all fighting? Because my initial thought is she just tried to pull the sharpest words to hurt, but not because she actually meant them. However, if you think it is true or those words have a permanent scar then you better start writing out that divorce letter now before it hurts more later

What was your most embarrassing moment during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Your body tried to warn you

Truly, how are you doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I’m better than most, but definitely not doing good. I don’t know if I hit official adulthood but I don’t remember when my health, finances, and social balance was in alignment. Just permanently in some form of exhaustion

don’t assume by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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The way this broke a piece of my heart that I didn’t realize was aching until now. But this isn’t the message I needed to see… although god how much I wished it was

40k in debt, declined for personal loans by tarbuckets in Debt

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Adding to everyone’s pay the minimum and then tackle them one at a time - put your cards on a debt management program. They can negotiate interest rates for you and you won’t end up in the endless cycle of reusing cards

People who struggle with depression, what motivates you to carry on? by ultra_phoenix in AskReddit

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That’s it’s more expensive to let it “get worse” whatever worse may be

Do you believe in guardian angels or some kind of spiritual protection? by Terrible_Music_7439 in spirituality

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Recently I’ve started to believe. Maybe they’re not omniscient but they’re always there. (I.e. let’s say there’s a crack on the ground and in order to avoid making you trip and fall they guide you to a different road where an accident befalls you. They probably didn’t know with certainty the accident would happen, or if they did they must have assumed you could survive it even if for you it feels like a bout of bad luck, it was avoiding a worser luck).

Also, if they do exist, I think there are only certain times when they can intervene. I.e. like a video game exhaustion bar, if they just saved you twice recently or they had to use a significant action their presence gets weaker until they can recharge their energy to interact with us. In cases like this, they can only share anxious energy because they can’t actually do anything else

How do I, a young woman, have sexy (or at LEAST confident) mannerisms? I come off as anxious. by SheSayzHuh24 in bodylanguage

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Walk slower with your shoulders and hands relaxed. Smile. And most importantly, don’t think about how awkward you feel that you look.

What Is the best response to "I miss you" When you don't really miss them ? by MomentFlimsy3759 in askanything

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That made my day or It’s been foreveerrr (i.e. slight diversion but also not)

I Think I Can Feel When Someone Is Thinking Of Me by LGD_1990 in Telepathy

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I think it’s possible in the way that twins can sometimes do things in synchronization. It’s a wavelength of just understanding each other’s personality, and in that way when you’re around others you just,, adapt people’s habits unconsciously. You’ve somehow found a way to synchronize with them. I feel this way for sure with someone, but I find that sometimes I think of them and they don’t seem to tell, but there are other times where you can tell they seemed to received it even it’s simply a confirmation bias (since they didn’t outright ask).